TheBrain wrote:
techstepgenr8tion wrote:
No, but I'm kinda just across the boarder, Cleveland OH area. I'm going to work in Greenville next week and I'm finding out its within a couple hours drive.
I'm trying to see if some people want to get together and share their experiences, but it sounds like you'll be come and gone by the time it I can make it happen. You should still look into groups, though. You might be able to figure some stuff out about yourself, or, better yet, help one of us who is struggling.
Lol, its not necessarily off the table though. Getting to Greenville only took 1hr 45 minutes for me because I had to take backroads (5 around Warren to 88 to whatever), supposedly Sharon and West Middlesex where I'm staying is only 80-some miles from my place.
I'm just saying, if you're up for getting people together some time perhaps on a Sunday, and plan to start thing early and wrap things up early - I'm not out of the question.
The other thing about groups, I did talk a local friend/psych into starting one back in 2006 - he and his wife are both, in regard to the Cleveland area, pretty far forward in the autism community. We got that off the ground, I attended for maybe two or three years, great people - and seeing other aspies IRL helped me, as you said, to get a much clearer concept on the boundaries of AS; what it is, what it isn't, how it may possibly define me and where it clearly doesn't. Also got the chance to speak at a few Milestone events! Overall it can be a great experience but, just as easily, you can end up in an aspie group - realize that you have a group of good acquaintences there but perhaps not anyone you'd go out of your way to hang or socialize with in the long run, ie. AS at least gives a certain amount of glue for conversation and interaction but like anything else its all in who you have the most in common with (whether that's interests or just fundamental attitudes/beliefs). That's not to say that it became a waste of my time either, just that it was $50 a session, my financial realities were changing, and I kinda felt like I was paying to co-lead the meetings more than anything else.
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