Hi,
Thank you for all the welcomes.
I am pleased I found this site and will continue to watch the posts to see if I can help my aspie, I love him very much despite his different behaviour and moods. I have ordered books on the subject to try and help as there doesn't seem to be any support locally, but the fact that I am trying to help my aspie has sent him over the edge. I understand this may be a long process but I really want to look after him - something he doesn't accept right now as he wanted to look after me.
Watch this space.