Hey, I'm a 36 year old who has recently discovered that I may have Aspergers. I have been married for 6 years and my wife has always been frustrated by me being withdrawn in social settings and taking things that are said to me literally. I have an obsessive knowledge of music, especially heavy metal and I have what my wife calls 'routines' that I have to do or I get upset. Luckily, we have a friend who has a son who has high functioning Autism and told her to research it or Aspergers. I took the test that I found online and it said 32 or more was considered probable.....I scored a 37, which is in the 'extreme' category. I have trouble doing some things which people consider to be simple tasks sometimes, but I have done things such as being completely self taught on the guitar. For years I have thought that I must be 'defective', but i'm glad that I found out that I am not alone in this and there are people who understand what it's like to live with this. 