Hi,
I'm a 56-year-old man who was diagnosed with Asperger's at age 49. Finding out was a great relief, and it felt good to instantly go from being an under-achiever to being an over-achiever. I've been happily married for 21 years. So my Asperger's may be milder than average. It's hard to say for sure since I've never met another person who, to my knowledge, has the syndrome.
I have worked in IT and in GIS, although my job situation is up in the air at the moment. My hobby, which I share with my wife, is birding. In fact we just saw a "life bird" (not seen by us before) -- a White Wagtail, which is normally found in Asia but lost his way and ended up at a beach near Los Angeles harbor.