RFP wrote:
I think I understand your situation. I began exploring when I retired and my work no longer gave me a way to avoid recognizing how "unique" my life and personality actually are. Fortunately, my career was in a field where my quirkiness was not so obvious. Now I spend most of my time in the larger world and I have started to really feel it. All the online tests and my readings point to Aspergers/Autism but, as you say, that is not a diagnosis.
I don't expect this to get easier with age so I am a bit concerned what to make of it all.
By the way I am 66.
I retire at the end of June. I am torn between anticipation and apprehension. Change is may be inevitable but it isn't easy.