Welcome
From what I've read from everyone here, most people seem to consider a diagnoses as a positive thing. I'm not sure on the technicalities, but I don't believe you have to disclose your condition, unless it effects your job/studies.
Most people have considered their diagnoses a relief. As for me, I'm self diagnosed at the moment, but am organising to make it official, as I'm about 99% sure I'm on the spectrum, after months of reading stories, and relating to others online.
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Hart
aka. Vanilla (Aspies Central)
"If you're not actively involved in getting what you want, you don't really want it."
- Peter MC Williams