My psych diagnosed me with aspergers. I'm not thrilled about it but it is what it is. So I figure I might as well say hello.
In a lot of ways, getting this at middle age made me pretty bitter and angry at first. Programmer + middle age + autism + unemployed/fired/managed out. It's not a pretty combination as employment prospects go.
But it's not the end of the world either. My sense of worth comes from an awesome spouse, job hunting efforts, taking care of bits of housework, and a psych who believes that this is the way my maker made me. My sense of "alone fun" comes from programming, math, and interesting mental challenges. My more "social" activities gravitate towards gaming, documentaries, and analytical commentaries. Unemployment notwithstanding, I have a good life.
I'd like to end this on something upbeat or profound..... "Aspergers may explain me but it doesn't define me".... nah. That's just philosophical silliness. Anyways, hello all!
<nasal>SMEEP!</nasal>