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unknownfactor
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23 Jan 2014, 11:05 pm

My psych diagnosed me with aspergers. I'm not thrilled about it but it is what it is. So I figure I might as well say hello.

In a lot of ways, getting this at middle age made me pretty bitter and angry at first. Programmer + middle age + autism + unemployed/fired/managed out. It's not a pretty combination as employment prospects go.

But it's not the end of the world either. My sense of worth comes from an awesome spouse, job hunting efforts, taking care of bits of housework, and a psych who believes that this is the way my maker made me. My sense of "alone fun" comes from programming, math, and interesting mental challenges. My more "social" activities gravitate towards gaming, documentaries, and analytical commentaries. Unemployment notwithstanding, I have a good life.

I'd like to end this on something upbeat or profound..... "Aspergers may explain me but it doesn't define me".... nah. That's just philosophical silliness. Anyways, hello all!

<nasal>SMEEP!</nasal>



Ashariel
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23 Jan 2014, 11:53 pm

Welcome! I admire you for handling your diagnosis as well as you have, and getting on with your life! You seem to have a very positive attitude in general, which makes a huge difference. Good luck with the job hunt - I hope something better comes along soon!



makaveiljojo
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24 Jan 2014, 1:26 am

man never give up on hope



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24 Jan 2014, 5:39 pm

Welcome to Wrong Planet!


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MannyBoo
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25 Jan 2014, 8:38 am

Hello. Welcome :)



Marky9
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25 Jan 2014, 9:02 am

Welcome!

Seems we have a fair amount in common regarding career and life circumstances. Also, and In terms of interests, I like many documentaries and some gaming.

I'm glad to have you join the WP gang. I hope you glean some helpful stuff here, and that you feel free to contribute your own experiences.

Cheers.


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25 Jan 2014, 10:10 am

Welcome :D


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