Jampiecover wrote:
After reading up on this a lot, I realised I've had it most my life as well. This was more a relief than anything else, since I always felt different and have been labeled "weird" more than I would like to admit. Also I could never understand the "normal people" in this world.
I also realized that I had Asperger's when it was identified in both of my children. It made me realize why they were so, so hard to raise (it was not figured out until they were in their 20s. There was way less attention paid to Asperger's in the 1980s and 1990s when they were growing up.)
I understand your relief in finally understanding that there was a good explanation about feeling different. I can look back at my eldest child's life where I was totally persuaded there was something terribly "wrong" with her, because life was just to hard for her, and finally have an explanation why. Even though it was way to late to change things for her, it was a relief.
I hope knowing early with your 8-year-old makes life easier for him in having an explanation of why he is different from others.