Falling for an HFA guy

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Hi folks, I've joined to read and get some support and validation - but mostly to get some real information from real people living the life. I'm 41 NT and recently started dating a great guy who I met online. I'll be posting and reading about the cross 'cultural' relationship advice, but if you have any great links to start off, I'm happy to check them out. My guy is an extremely ridiculously intelligent man with a lot of information to share and sometimes it's a whirlwind of things - sometimes interesting, sometimes not - I suppose listening to me is the same sometimes. Making him laugh is like seeing a comet. Rare and exhilarating, though he says he's enjoying things.... he just doesn't emote, so I'm trying to take him at his word. The sex is lovely and since I'm a tad awkward and dorky it kind of fits in well with his sometimes awkward style there too. So we've been together for 3 months and I'm thinking I really should get information not just from him and his life experiences, but from folks who have navigated relationships before. He's never had a good - healthy relationship and is 39, so I don't want to hop on to that list without really trying.

Wish me luck!
Linder

Hey Linder welcome, and Good Luck!

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