Hello I am new to this site

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I am 58 years old and I did not find out I had Aspergers until last year. I have managed to cope with my condition all these years by learning to mimic behaviors (an actor playing a part), and when I told people that I have Aspergers almost everyone I knew was surprised. I am very fortunate to have meet someone 5 years ago (the very first human being I have ever felt love for), who is sticking with me. I write novels as a hobby (it helps me to keep my mind from going in a dozen different directions), my third is pictured here. I have had a difficult time adjusting to the fact that I have Aspergers (I always thought I had suffered some emotional tragedy when I was younger), and I am here hoping to see how other people deal with certain things, like a change in your routine which for me can be problematic. I have very few memories of my life before the age of 40 (almost none before the age of 16). I am seeing someone who is trying to help me understand this, and what I may or may not be capable of in the future.

Welcome to Wrong Planet! I'm sure you'll find plenty of friendly support here. I went through diagnosis myself recently, so I can empathise with your situation to an extent.

Welcome to Wrong Planet!

Hey MrBreeze welcome.

Hey Mr. Clean, I'm glad you found this place. I know all to well about "playing the part" I did it myself for about 27 years but our true selves always come out eventually, and it isn't always easy to deal with either. At least here you know you're safe and to leave the pressure to be an actor at the door.