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Hi everyone i think u should read my other topic post first before this as it contains info about me life

Its on my posts called hi all
I would post link but it wont let me
So hello
Im wanting to ask your advice
On where i should go next in life

I think i already made the most important step which is relizeing i need help
And also finding autism groups and trying i think proves i want to find my next step

For the last 5-6 year my life has pretty much been the same

As of lately ive started to try make my goals achiveable

Well goal
My only goal is to get a gf which is possibly not the best goal for my main goal

Last year i started going out once a week to a pub which i guess increases my chances by a lot tho first i was just internet dating for 4years
With no luck or a single date that theese days i barely evan message anyone just  because ive tried so long now.

I think normal people would say college ,job,own place etc

But im not normal and think college will just be like school i know they say its not but its the same princebal and i just dont want anything like school ever again

Dosent help that i never did my final year or started it

And i think id just be judged on way i dress or way i wear same clothes all the time

I honestly have thought about college etc but could never find a thing that i wanted to do but a couple things to maybe try but with no support i coudent decide what to pick

As for a job well i kinda already mentioned it in my last topic

Own place

Well that would surely sort my problem with se.        X
But then i have animals and would need to put them first as well as i would probly need help and i think maybe im better off starting small and then maybe moving up to that is a wiser option also i have grown attached to animals stepmam has so not sure id evan want to leave them

Back to my goal

Well i just think for me that i am limiting myself but im only looking for people within my town prettymuch not because im lazy and wont travel but the other way around i struggle with travel and used too get lost among other things that i wont mention right now

So when i do find someone interesting  before i message them i check to see there location as well theres no point wasting there time if i will never be able to meet up with them
Learned that the hard way
So how far is too far for me well i think anywhere out of my current town.

When im out at pub i dont talk to women i wait for them to approach me or ill find them on internet later
Which both  never help me in my goal

Then again im not sure anyone would be able to accept my life atm and may think im just lazy

I do hear about people with autism etc going to therapy among other things to try help them learn or improve there travel or other basic  skills

But i havent found any yet

Then again im not sure id evan be allowed to meet anyone from internet because of curreny carer/ kinda stepmam

Evan know she met her current bf on dating site so shes allowed and im not just because i have disabilitys

Anyway has anyone here been in my situation or can maybe give advice on where i should go next with life

If u have disability or not any advice is welcome

Thanks for your time