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21 Jan 2016, 2:16 am

Hi,

My username is Zenstrive, and I am a father of a toddler born in 2013. He was diagnosed with ASD last year. Me and my wife were curious on his lack of social engagements and hyperactivities. He loves to climb into anything (stairs, cabinets, people), and doesn't even speak coherently.

We put him into a special class, three hours a week, and his progress seems to be slow. He's still not verbal, he is still hyperactive, he loves to do little hand-flapping step-dance, and he loves long flexible objects.

He doesn't even want to play with toy cars.

I hope this forum can help me.



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21 Jan 2016, 10:08 am

Hello and welcome! :D
It seems to me that some parents worry too much about their children acting 'normally' and developing along with everyone else. Not all children like playing with toy cars, after all, and I was much the same as your son when I was young. I used sounds to communicate and didn't speak until I was three. I think that your son will eventually learn to talk when he is ready, though I am hardly an expert. Perhaps some of the other forum members could help?


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21 Jan 2016, 3:55 pm

Welcome to Wrong Planet!


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21 Jan 2016, 4:26 pm

Kuraudo777 wrote:
Hello and welcome! :D
It seems to me that some parents worry too much about their children acting 'normally' and developing along with everyone else. Not all children like playing with toy cars, after all, and I was much the same as your son when I was young. I used sounds to communicate and didn't speak until I was three. I think that your son will eventually learn to talk when he is ready, though I am hardly an expert. Perhaps some of the other forum members could help?


Thanks Kuraudo777, it's encouraging. I just wish my son can flourish in normal school environment later in his life. I wish he could at least follow his path without much problems to and from the society.



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21 Jan 2016, 4:27 pm

Hey Zenstrive welcome. :sunny:


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21 Jan 2016, 4:29 pm

AnonymousAnonymous wrote:
Welcome to Wrong Planet!


RoadRatt wrote:
Hey Zenstrive welcome. :sunny:


Thanks for you both.



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21 Jan 2016, 4:34 pm

Homeschooling may be one of the best things for autistic-aspergian children, especially those with high sensory overload. It certainly worked for me!


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