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28 Feb 2016, 5:03 pm

Even online. ):



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28 Feb 2016, 5:34 pm

Me too.



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28 Feb 2016, 7:21 pm

I find it hard to make friends in real life. Online is easier. I think. I'm not entirely sure what constitutes a "friend".



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28 Feb 2016, 7:32 pm

Same here.


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28 Feb 2016, 8:08 pm

I'm always looking for friends, but I'm too weird, my friendships don't last +3 months....



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29 Feb 2016, 10:15 pm

Hello, welcome to here :)



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03 Mar 2016, 5:26 pm

I hope I can make friends here :)



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03 Mar 2016, 6:33 pm

I feel the same way, it's so hard for me to make friends, even online. I have made some friends here though. I hope you make some friends here too :)



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03 Mar 2016, 6:41 pm

It's harder for me online than even in real life, which is really hard to begin with. But I suck at internet stuff anyways as I am really not a big fan of technology at all...

Good luck though.



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03 Mar 2016, 6:45 pm

Thanks. It's easy to start a conversation, sometimes... but the hard part is keep this friendship, the conversation.



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03 Mar 2016, 7:54 pm

When you don't go to school or work with someone there is no reason to see them in person,
You have to do things like go for a meal or a drink. This can seem contrived and forced.



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03 Mar 2016, 8:17 pm

Welcome to the club :|

i liked the internet before it became all social media, it was a lot easier to make friends with people then. Everyone is so insular now, I use to have many friends on the internet and now I don't really talk to anyone.



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03 Mar 2016, 8:21 pm

It doesn't get any easier so you might as well just go for it.



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03 Mar 2016, 9:55 pm

Making friends is rough for me too. I feel so boring a lot, even when I talk about stuff I enjoy :(



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04 Mar 2016, 2:06 pm

Welcome to Wrong Planet! :)

I will make an attempt to PM you within the next several days.


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