Welcome to the spectrum, be it good or bad.
Most resources and help are focused towards children and younger people. As an adult you are S.O.L. and have to take care of yourself. Society seem to think that autism goes away with time...
Only thing i was offered (Living in Sweden) as an adult was Cognitive Behaviour Therapy and free dental care - and only one of those were helpful.
I still have problems socialising, have problems finding time and energy to do chores at home because my job exhausts me, but at least my teeth are good...
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"It is far better to grasp the Universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring" (Carl Sagan)