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marcaevans
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10 Nov 2016, 5:02 am

Hello there, My name is Marc. I am a UK-Based Nurse, recently diagnosed with ASD (Asperger's under old classification). I have known that I was slightly different most of my life, only started reading about Autism at the start of 2015 really and felt that it sounded exactly like me. I would say I was only self-diagnosed for the last six months when I felt this was definitely what I had and had my assessments at the end of October after a 18-month wait and was formally diagnosed with ASD.

Im fairly contented with my diagnosis because as I say I had self-diagnosed previously so had time to come to terms with it so when they said yes it was ASD it wasn't too much of a shock. I will say Im still coming to terms with certain aspects like occasionally I will sit and think "wow this is massive". I think I have done fairly well for myself in life, I was told that I would never reach university and would probably need a lot of care but so far have been to university twice and going back in April to do another course. I live an independent life, I live about an hour from my parents and cope fairly well.

I think what made me consider ASD in the first place was my lack of social interaction, I go to work, come home and stay at home. I also have really terrible eye-contact with people I don't know, gets slightly better as I feel more comfortable with people. My life is also dictated by routines that I find difficult to break, I get stressed and agitated if my routine goes off track. Anyway this is me, as I say Im fairly contented with my diagnosis and I don't think it limits me that much even though people are concerned about my need to isolate myself but it doesn't bother me that much.


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Your neurodiverse (Aspie) score: 162 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 37 of 200
AQ Score 45/50

Diagnosed ASD November 2016


jmjelde
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10 Nov 2016, 10:59 am

I enjoyed reading you post. My husband and I are both ASD. He is also completely happy being isolated. He stays up in the attic and programs all day long and seems perfectly content. I know he hasn't seen any humans other than me in the last five days. I envy him very much. If you are content, that is fantastic. And I envy you too.

I hope you have a comfortable chair and a good source of tasty beverages. And maybe a pet. Pets are good. They don't talk much and they don't insist on eye contact.



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10 Nov 2016, 12:33 pm

Hey Marc welcome. :sunny:


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10 Nov 2016, 1:04 pm

Welcome! Congratulations on proving people wrong. :D



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14 Nov 2016, 7:43 pm

Welcome to Wrong Planet! :D


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15 Nov 2016, 6:41 am

jmjelde wrote:
I enjoyed reading you post. My husband and I are both ASD. He is also completely happy being isolated. He stays up in the attic and programs all day long and seems perfectly content. I know he hasn't seen any humans other than me in the last five days. I envy him very much. If you are content, that is fantastic. And I envy you too.

I hope you have a comfortable chair and a good source of tasty beverages. And maybe a pet. Pets are good. They don't talk much and they don't insist on eye contact.

Pets are so good. I never thought about the fact that eye contact with my cat is a million times easier than eye contact with a human.

Welcome Marc!


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Your neurodiverse (Aspie) score: 139 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 67 of 200
You are very likely neurodiverse (Aspie)