Hi Radayam!
I am also slow to get back to people. It drives my family crazy.
Your mom gave you some great advice when she told you to log on here. Wrong Planet has a number of different forums, and they aren't all about Autism/Asperger's issues. Since you are interested in computer games, check out the computer and games forums here. When you need help with Autism/Asperger's problems, you can post here at WP for help, or read posts from others with similar problems to see what they have tried for solutions.
As for contact with others here, you can get as involved as you want, or keep contact light, and you can hang out here as often, or as little as you want. There is no frequency requirement. Occasionally, I have been "away" for several months, but have come back when I was able, and my contact mostly involves reading posts from others, sometimes posting replies, and occasionally making a new post of my own.
Hope you like WP--I do!
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If a man does not keep pace with his companions, perhaps it is because he hears a different drummer.
Let him step to the music which he hears, however measured, or far away.--Henry David Thoreau