Hi, welcome, I was diagnosed at a similar age to yours. Give yourself time; I was confirming what I knew, you got a surprise.
I really like your username. There are a few of us vintage Aspies here welcome again!
(edit in: even some of the moderators are in our age range. And I have found so many younger folks here to be kind and very forgiving when I don't know about music or gaming, etc.)
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"I believe you find life such a problem because you think there are the good people and the bad people," said the man. "You're wrong, of course. There are, always and only, the bad people, but some of them are on opposite sides."
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