I think I was around here ages ago a teensy bit. I have two kids w/ AS, I have ADHD, and d'oh! When I think about everything going on w/ my husband as if he has AS, it fits so well. So I came back to see if I could understand him better- as a non-dianosed, not getting how well it fits, but mostly, having massive stress in our lives. So if anyone can point me anywhere here related to
-spouse with Aspergers/autistic spouse
-mixed neurodiversity in couples
-presentation of Aspergers that is easy to miss--- eg rigidity that is masked, anxiety that is masked... ......
for starters. I'm too tired to figure out if I'm explaining well.