feeli0 wrote:
Welcome MrFroz. I’m a late diagnosis too and agree that its a good thing in a lot of ways. However I do like the explanation of why my social life has always been such a shambles!
I think ASD is a valid explanation for that too, but I do not seek comfort in it. I talked to many different kinds of people since my diagnosis and I happened to realize that people's lives tend to be hard for whatever reason, be it because of unemployment or losing someone dear. I think in every case the important thing is to not lose hope in yourself or people.
BTDT wrote:
Welcome! Didn't know I had autism until I was in the middle of a LTR after buying a house together
I actually found out about my Asperger's because of trying to find the cause for another health problem.
When I was eighteen I started suffering from nervous tics like blinking, touching my face or frowning. I actually had these tics when I was a child but they were rare, however in adulthood I started doing them more frequently and sometimes many of them at once. Whenever I walked on the street and suffered these motor tics, people would think I was having a stomachache and ask me if I was OK.
I went to a psychiatrist in order to get some medicine for the tics but during the very first session she noticed I had difficulties making eye contact with her and that I was introverted like few people she knew. After some more sessions I got a preliminarly diagnosis of AS and eventually a definitive assessment of it. My tics persisted (and even worsened) and they make me very uncomfortable but in a way I'm grateful for them.
By the way, thanks for the warm welcome guys.