Hi and welcome
. I agree with Jimmy. I’m a parent of three who are on the spectrum, as am I, and believe wholeheartedly in acceptance, not cure. My children are now adults. My eldest son is a pilot(also a successful singer/songwriter/musician who has a hair salon in London. My daughter followed in my footsteps and works with children and young adults on the spectrum who present with the more extreme behavioural issues, and she is an artist with a gift for languages, and my youngest is an actor in film and video games, who I home educated for 10 years. He also plays multiple instruments and is a singer/songwriter, bringing out music on a continual basis. We’re a very close-knit family.
Much of the behaviour of autistic children/adults that is seen as a problem and is frequently targeted for “treatment”, “cure”, “correction”, is actually symptomatic of the need for structure. If a disturbed autistic person is given the structure they need and crave, then the anxiety-driven problem behaviour disappears.
Again, welcome! I have a friend who lives in Sao Paulo. Good to have you with us.
I'm glad to read such successful histories about your family.