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24 Sep 2020, 6:35 pm

Hi there

I'm new and in the process of diagnosis. I am recently taking it seriously that I have autism and it has been overwhelming. I don't have a family that believes me or what I have been going through. They think that there is someone to blame when all I want is help to live my life.

It is all so overwhelming. Especially since I am in school and now live alone. I've been having a really tough time and really want to be understood. I want to talk to people who know what it feels like to be in my shoes. I wa told by my sister to find a support group.. so, here I am.

I am a 26 year old African American woman who loves science and everything science related (except biology). I love science fiction tv shows, movies, games, and book. My favorite character is Spock. I am studying Physics in school.



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24 Sep 2020, 6:39 pm

Hello there!

Welcome to WP and I'm sure you will find lots of common ground with posters.

I happen to be from a black family that wasn't exactly supportive. It sucks, but keep studying your physics and you will end up in a better situation.

What sci fi in particular do you enjoy?


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24 Sep 2020, 6:51 pm

Happy landings here on WP. , welcome , pretty sure you will find like minds here on this planet . :D


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24 Sep 2020, 6:52 pm

Hello, welcome :mrgreen:

I also love science (multiple branches but I'm educated in geoscience) and sci-fi shows. Spock and the other major Vulcan Star Trek characters (like Tuvok) are my favorites (I'm a huge trek nerd :nerdy: ). What other shows do you like?

I wish I had more of a physics background. We use a lot of physics in structural geology, but I always feel like I don't know enough :lol: .



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24 Sep 2020, 6:59 pm

Thank you all for the welcome. I appreciate it.

I hope that immersing myself in Physics will help. I recently told my parents that I can no longer talk to them. They make me cry a lot and feel crazy.

Star Trek is my favorite show series. I'm currently on the last episode of Star Trek Discovery and it has been a mind trip. I like it so much! Michael Burnam has to be my second favorite character (maybe even tied with her brother Spock!). After Discovery, I love Next Generation. For a funny laugh, I like Futurama. I have seen Alien a million times. I really really love Big Bang Theory and can sing the theme song every time it comes on. I know it isn't technically science fiction but I still love it.



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24 Sep 2020, 7:19 pm

^ I still haven't tried Discovery (though I did watch Picard). I heard they changed the look of the Klingons, so being that I'm no good at change I've been resistant :lol: . But I've heard that Jonathan Frakes directed some of it, so that might be the push I need.

My parents make me crazy too. I'm glad to no longer live with them.

Ooh yes I also love Futurama :-D :alien:

Oh and general new member caution: Be wary if you go into the Political or Love and Dating subforums. Things are often hostile (particularly political threads) there.



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24 Sep 2020, 7:27 pm

Ugh, crying and crazy-making sounds depressingly familiar :( .

Hopefully you can gather a "big bang theory" type bunch of nerdy friends who will support you :heart: .


BTW, I loved Futurama!

Did you ever catch any Rick and Morty?


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24 Sep 2020, 7:35 pm

Yaaaay Futurama ..... and the professor. Blatantly logical ..Love Next Generation ...... still afraid of the Borg ...lolz
Resistance is Futile . 7 of 9 was ideal character but Spocks logic rules imho .


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24 Sep 2020, 7:52 pm

The change of the Klingons was definitely hard to get used to. I still prefer my Worf over these.... uh.... these oddities. It is amazing in quality!! I tried to sit through Picard but it started to bore me a bit. Maybe I wa tired or I liked him best in Next Generation.

I'm trying to get used to no longer living with them. Change is hard for me.. it's been a lot of downs with the occasional ups.

Oh boy, I guess I know where to steer clear of. I appreciate the warning 8O

That is what I want! I want to work in a lab and have nerdy scientist friends. I really want friends like me so I won't feel like the oddball all of the time.

I did watch Rick and Morty! The current season... it's uh... tough to watch.

The Borg are crazy :!:



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24 Sep 2020, 7:57 pm

Welcome to WP!


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24 Sep 2020, 8:05 pm

sunshineck wrote:
Hi there

I'm new and in the process of diagnosis. I am recently taking it seriously that I have autism and it has been overwhelming. I don't have a family that believes me or what I have been going through. They think that there is someone to blame when all I want is help to live my life.

It is all so overwhelming. Especially since I am in school and now live alone. I've been having a really tough time and really want to be understood. I want to talk to people who know what it feels like to be in my shoes. I wa told by my sister to find a support group.. so, here I am.

I am a 26 year old African American woman who loves science and everything science related (except biology). I love science fiction tv shows, movies, games, and book. My favorite character is Spock. I am studying Physics in school.


This is a good website to learn about Autism.
A lot of supportive people here.
Just say out of a couple of forums.
Have a look at this post: viewtopic.php?t=191597#p8581100

The Haven is the safest forum to post in if you are feeling anxious and need help/support. viewforum.php?f=23

Welcome. ;)



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24 Sep 2020, 8:09 pm

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Thank you all for the welcome. I appreciate it.

I hope that immersing myself in Physics will help. I recently told my parents that I can no longer talk to them. They make me cry a lot and feel crazy.

Star Trek is my favorite show series. I'm currently on the last episode of Star Trek Discovery and it has been a mind trip. I like it so much! Michael Burnam has to be my second favorite character (maybe even tied with her brother Spock!). After Discovery, I love Next Generation. For a funny laugh, I like Futurama. I have seen Alien a million times. I really really love Big Bang Theory and can sing the theme song every time it comes on. I know it isn't technically science fiction but I still love it.


My favourite Star Trek franchise is: "Voyager".
I identify heavily with Tuvok. "V" 8)



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24 Sep 2020, 8:14 pm

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That is what I want! I want to work in a lab and have nerdy scientist friends. I really want friends like me so I won't feel like the oddball all of the time.


My favorite job was when I worked in a research lab. Everyone was infinitely cooler than me, but working with other scientists was the most mentally stimulating experience.



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24 Sep 2020, 8:20 pm

It must really compound your stresses to have that situation with your family. I hope your sister is more supportive than your parents sound.

L&D at times can be a pit of self-pity and misogyny. PP&R tends to reflect the polarized world we live in, multiplied by the inability to drop things or concede when one's views are reasonably described in an unflattering way.

I don't work in a lab (unless you mean the type that makes music), but maybe I'm eccentric enough to be your friend? And if not, I'd still like to be. :P


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24 Sep 2020, 8:30 pm

sunshineck wrote:
Hi there

I'm new and in the process of diagnosis. I am recently taking it seriously that I have autism and it has been overwhelming. I don't have a family that believes me or what I have been going through. They think that there is someone to blame when all I want is help to live my life.

It is all so overwhelming. Especially since I am in school and now live alone. I've been having a really tough time and really want to be understood. I want to talk to people who know what it feels like to be in my shoes. I wa told by my sister to find a support group.. so, here I am.

I am a 26 year old African American woman who loves science and everything science related (except biology). I love science fiction tv shows, movies, games, and book. My favorite character is Spock. I am studying Physics in school.



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24 Sep 2020, 8:40 pm

Pepe wrote:
I identify heavily with Tuvok. "V" 8)


Same here

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