I first came on here 12 years ago, back then I had nothing. Just a early to mid 20s individual on the spectrum, reclusive with no friends and spent my life on the internet. It was tough, I never made friends with anyone on here, just acquaintances, but I appreciated the forum and used it as an learning opportunity. Eventually. I did get help. Fast forward a few years later - I met my wife. We had a child, we got married, had more kids. I got a car, a job, and I set goals and the steps and requirements I needed to achieve these goals. This is what younger people should learn, don't let people hold you down - life is malleable and progressive - you aren't the same person you were 10 years ago, the same way you won't be the same in 10 years from now. So, just wanted to check in, say hello - My names Raymond on here, if anyone is looking for a friend or just to know who I am, really appreciate this community and the people who are here.