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18 Oct 2024, 5:56 pm

I'm new here so I'm going to be incredibly awkward.

I'm 23, a woman, and I am a self-diagnosed autistic. Specifically, what used to be known as Asperger's or is now known as level 1, low support needs, whatever you want to call it. I only realized this about a year ago because my friend (a psych major) told me I'm autistic. My brother got his official autism diagnosis earlier this year, and that helped me realize I'm also autistic. No official diagnosis for me, I'm broke! I also have ADHD, which is professionally diagnosed.

I'm too nervous to meet with a community/group of other autistic people in person. But I also haven't been able to find one in my area. I'm not great with socializing because I'm absolutely terrified everyone is going to hate me. :| But I need to find people I can actually relate to and I'm also running low on friends.

My special interest is Doctor Who, so if you're a fan, please talk to me about it. No one I know likes this dumb show, but it's my favorite thing to exist ever. I'm also big into reading and literature, and most forms of storytelling media.

I don't really know how this place works, I'm new to posting on a forum at all. Feel free to talk to me, I'm really awkward but also running low on socialization.


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18 Oct 2024, 6:27 pm

Welcome to Wrong Planet! :)

What are your favorite books?


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18 Oct 2024, 6:30 pm

Welcome to WP! I hope you like it here.

I hope you have discovered AQ. It cannot give you a formal diagnosis but it can reinforce your self-diagnosis.

And...Doctor Who. Sigh. :oops:

I started watching it during the Tom Baker era. And, at some point started getting it on video.

My video collection now includes what is available of the Hartnell & Troughton eras (including reconstructions) and all of the Doctors afterwards (including McGann) up to and including Whittaker...it seems likely that at some point I will also begin accumulating Gatwa episodes and later, as well.

Plus I've got K-9 and Company: A Girl's Best Friend, Torchwood, Sarah Jane Adventures, and Class.

And some non-canon videos (including all of K9), as well.

I blame the opening theme music. I find it compelling.

At least I stopped buying the books.


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18 Oct 2024, 7:36 pm

Hi darkcircle,
Welcome to WP.
I had a friend working in a TV station who found a Hartnell episode on a stored wire reel recorder in about 82. I remember it causing a sensation at the time.



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18 Oct 2024, 8:40 pm

Welcome to Wrong Planet! I hope you enjoy it here.


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18 Oct 2024, 11:10 pm

Hi and welcome! I hope you find some of what you are looking for here.



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19 Oct 2024, 10:22 am

darkcirclecentral, Welcome to Wrong Planet.

You have only submitted on thread so far, so I hope you have figured out how to read the responses and replied to them.

First off, Don't be Scared. You are among friends.

You wrote, "I'm not great with socializing because I'm absolutely terrified everyone is going to hate me."

Actually most people do not hate you, they just do not understand you. Humans tend to fear things they do not understand. So they may fear you, but be strong and Believe in Yourself. That is the only one that is important.


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21 Oct 2024, 1:10 pm

Thank you for the responses everyone. I really appreciate it. I'm not exactly sure how to reply, this is my best guess.

AnonymousAnonymous wrote:
What are your favorite books?

I'm super picky with books. I usually like sci-fi/fantasy found family sort of things. Of course, I have a soft spot for Harry Potter despite the flaws of the author. Lately, I've been reading a lot of classic sci-fi, and I really enjoyed the Robot and Monk series by Becky Chambers.

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I hope you have discovered AQ. It cannot give you a formal diagnosis but it can reinforce your self-diagnosis.

And...Doctor Who. Sigh. :oops:

Thank you for telling me about AQ, I'm definitely going to look into that!

I wish I had a DW collection like yours. Right now I'm relying on BritBox, Max, and Internet Archive to access every episode. (And right now Internet Archive is down, and I've really been wanting to watch The Macra Terror :cry: ).
I started watching right after the 50th anniversary came out, and I've been powering through Classic this year. Troughton's era is for sure my favorite, and I've spent all my money on books and Big Finish audios, everything. I actually think I prefer Classic to Modern. I'm on Peter Davidson's last season right now and I'm loving every second!

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I had a friend working in a TV station who found a Hartnell episode on a stored wire reel recorder in about 82. I remember it causing a sensation at the time.

That's so cool!! I'm glad your friend found what was probably a missing episode. I think it's super important to have older media preserved, especially when it comes to DW, as the show is really tied to its own history.

Thank you all for the warm welcomes and kind words, it really means a lot.


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21 Oct 2024, 2:24 pm

It sounds like you have good taste in Doctors. :)


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21 Oct 2024, 3:28 pm

darkcirclecentral wrote:
Thank you for the responses everyone. I really appreciate it. I'm not exactly sure how to reply, this is my best guess.

AnonymousAnonymous wrote:
What are your favorite books?

I'm super picky with books. I usually like sci-fi/fantasy found family sort of things. Of course, I have a soft spot for Harry Potter despite the flaws of the author. Lately, I've been reading a lot of classic sci-fi, and I really enjoyed the Robot and Monk series by Becky Chambers.



I absolutely agree about JK Rowling's antics as of recent.

If you've never read these books, but want to at some point, I recommend:

Fahrenheit 451

Slaughterhouse 5

Brave New World

Animal Farm

Fight Club

The Jungle Books


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