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starlighter
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06 Sep 2007, 3:35 pm

Welcome to WP!

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06 Sep 2007, 4:02 pm

Welcome to WrongPlanet

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06 Sep 2007, 4:29 pm

Hi. Welcome to WP.

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06 Sep 2007, 4:29 pm

Nice to meet you, starlighter.

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06 Sep 2007, 5:41 pm

Hi starlighter, and welcome.

It sounds as if you have had an unfortunate time. I don't see how you can blame yourself, or your father. Your mother chose her own path. Maybe there was some way you could have helped, but it is more likely that you could not.

No purpose is served by you agonising about it now. It is part of the past. Remember her well. She lives on in you and your brother.

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06 Sep 2007, 6:14 pm

Hi there! Welcome to the WP.

I feel horrible for you that all those events happened to you. I can't say I've been through any of the same, so I'm probably not the best person to help. But if I can help make sense of anything, I'll do my best.

And stay positive

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07 Sep 2007, 11:55 am

I am very sorry for the extremely unfortunate incident that has occured. :cry: I am not sure but I well and truly think you were doing the right thing, trying to help her. I myself am still a teenager, so I do not know much about the adult world. If it was me, I would have definitely helped, wanting to get her to be happy.

My advice: Never forget about your mother and the way that you cared for her. You will be even sadder if you do. Also, maybe you can try and go back into life in some way.

If my advice was completely rubbish, then I am sorry because I have never been in this kind of situation. I know it must feel horrible to know that she's gone. It's happened to me twice before in life with two different people and I still really miss them.

Hopefully on WrongPlanet you can talk to some people like moi and then you can relate to them, I hope that helps, getting to know some people.

Sad for you, mightyzebra

I hope the glass will be half full for you! :-)

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09 Sep 2007, 12:13 pm

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09 Sep 2007, 2:57 pm

Welcome,

Everyone choses their own life. The same background can have very different outcomes. There is no fault.

Each life is a story about it's self.

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