Hi there,
"Awesome to have found this site", yes. Similar experience here.
Arrogance and narrowmindedness really suck a lot. Translate my adagium or quote and that's a really old saying by Plinius. Sorry to say but it hasn't changed since those days. Probably it has gotten worse.
Best of luck to you and your family,
Ceesjan
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Solum certum nihil esse certi, et
homine nihil miserius aut superbius.