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hello out there!
As ive been on the net for 2 years now, and with the diagnose, and with a lonely heart, i found women here!
Love in the shades. Yes i was scammed. Well thats passed now, and as i believe in trusting people, so im going down to Senegal soon. Meet with my black and much younger wife to be.
Am i crazy? At first i tried to get her here but due to her nigerian citizenship, she never got a visa.
All i can lose here is some money.
But ive backed up that, so i have when i get back to Sweden again.
As an aspie, doing this is big! Im very homy and careful,and have been safe with just working and interneting and writing music
If i dont do this i ll probably just fade away here!
Bert in Sweden

I dont really know what you mean.
XOXOXOXO

If that doesn't work out try Ghana, they're very good looking people.

okay
Isnt it typicall aspiestyle to use the internet for dating?
And isnt it the same style in being daring? or is it just me wanting to break the isolation here?
Bert in Sweden

i can understand it, if you don't want to be alone, why not, I think there's another poster here who recommends marrying foreigners or people from 3rd world countries. I've certainly seen some of those marriages can work, but some of them just use you for citizenship and will dump you once they've got that. i don't know that much about it. my ex- neighbour was engaged to a Ghanain he met on the net, he went over there and they got married, but shortly after he came back (she had to stay in Ghana until the bureaucratic process is completed) he was in a helicopter crash and died. we have some ghanain immigration here and they're stunning looking people, really nicely made. he had a video of the wedding and some scenery from the city they got married in. that's about all i know about it, never done it myself, i'm more of a loner.

yes guess im a bit weak for colored women.
Im a loner too, but must i stay that way? i was married b4. she had posttraumatic stressyndrome. So our life was always a mess. And i dont want to die alone.
Im just uncertain if im capaple of keeping a relation going and growing, due to the diagnose.
Any advice?
Bert in Sweden

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Hello and welcome to Wrong Planet, Bert.

Nice to meet you, blunder.

Very nice reply
but to be honest im shittin scared.... i might lose all ive saved for this just for to fail again!
But anyone feeling like Paul Simons "im a rock im an island" ought to do this! Over and over again!
This might be the only outcome from this. But what a triumph if just so!
Think about if the whole idea works!
It could be a disaster but never a loss!

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