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Thanks for the welcome. : )

Last edited by Asuigeneris1 on 07 May 2009, 1:44 am, edited 1 time in total.

Hey Welcome To Wp

Your lifestory reminds me so much of the reality that love is blind.

How do you expect to survive in a relationship that is extremely one-sided and will obviously never fulfill any of your real needs?

...with a sense of humor and an understanding that "nothing in life is perfect". LOL

“Hello,” Asuigeneris1, and welcome to the Wrong Planet community.

Welcome.

To WrongPlanet!! !

(Linda? is that YOU??)

well, perhaps not. You might like a book I can recommend, "Loving Mr. Spock" about . . well, being attracted to an aloof man.

http://www.amazon.com/Loving-Mr-Spock-U ... 1932565205

Merle

Though I do know a Linda who fell for someone similar to my Nick, not sure how that ever panned out for her though...she seemed less able to deal with the behaviors that us NP's consider odd at best.

No one understands why I stick with this, likely because I am a nurturing type to a huge degree, and he is in need of that...which makes us relatively co-dependent.

My family just wants me to be happy and even though I am not always, for the most part I feel a strange sense of contentment with Nick too...something much deeper than the surface elements of a male/female relationship.

Yes, I love to be held and kissed and the like, but I also want a deeper connection as well...which to this day I have never had the way I do with Nick.

He may be in his own world for a great percentage of the time, but when he's in mine...he shows me that he cares and loves me, he refuels me and prepares me for the next days "aloofness".

welcome