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24 Nov 2009, 11:07 am

I think I see the problem: Age: 16



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24 Nov 2009, 11:56 am

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I think I see the problem: Age: 16


Even so, the kid is rather to the point and pretty astute.


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25 Nov 2009, 12:21 am

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I think I see the problem: Age: 16



ageism is not condoned on WrongPlanet.net.

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25 Nov 2009, 12:32 am

david_42 wrote:
I think I see the problem: Age: 16


What does that have to do with anything?


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25 Nov 2009, 8:24 am

pat2rome wrote:
david_42 wrote:
I think I see the problem: Age: 16


What does that have to do with anything?


exactly!


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25 Nov 2009, 11:48 am

Maybe the comment wasn't ageism. Maybe it was meant to note that young people will tend to have different expectations. Or more likely to not yet have learned not to project their expectations onto others.


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25 Nov 2009, 9:17 pm

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Maybe the comment wasn't ageism. Maybe it was meant to note that young people will tend to have different expectations. Or more likely to not yet have learned not to project their expectations onto others.


Many hours have gone by since we have posted our objections, and no explanations have been offered. I sent a PM, but haven't been answered. I would like to know.

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25 Nov 2009, 9:43 pm

sinsboldly wrote:
Mysty wrote:
Maybe the comment wasn't ageism. Maybe it was meant to note that young people will tend to have different expectations. Or more likely to not yet have learned not to project their expectations onto others.


Many hours have gone by since we have posted our objections, and no explanations have been offered. I sent a PM, but haven't been answered. I would like to know.

Merle

I didn't see the post as ageism, and I interpreted the poster's meaning of "problem" moreso as "age-related dilemma" than "those damn kids."

Maybe I'm wrong--I tend to give people "benefit of doubt" if I can't be certain of my observations. I don't have time to dredge up every post by the miscreant-in-question--perhaps you do, which might shed more light on the poster's disposition.



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25 Nov 2009, 10:03 pm

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It's not really how the site is run that's a problem, it's that people here rarely offer practical advice, and frequenty blame all their problems on "NT society", have paranoid consipirosy therories, and are in general not the community that I want to be a part of. And since it's an alienating community, rather than one that helps with alienation, that's why I say it does the opposite of it's puropse. If I wasn't clear on that I'm sorry.

Have you ever seen a community that is not alienating? By definition communities are meant to be alienating ...

If you want things to improve start by making the posts you'd like to see.


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25 Nov 2009, 11:20 pm

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metelz wrote:
It's not really how the site is run that's a problem, it's that people here rarely offer practical advice, and frequenty blame all their problems on "NT society", have paranoid consipirosy therories, and are in general not the community that I want to be a part of. And since it's an alienating community, rather than one that helps with alienation, that's why I say it does the opposite of it's puropse. If I wasn't clear on that I'm sorry.

Have you ever seen a community that is not alienating? By definition communities are meant to be alienating ...

If you want things to improve start by making the posts you'd like to see.


Isn't it so like us to define a community as alienating. Communities are seen from the inside as gathering and accepting, however if you are excluded it is definately alienation that insulates fitting into the community.


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26 Nov 2009, 11:48 am

Exclusively excluding self-exclusion of course. 8O



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26 Nov 2009, 8:30 pm

lol this is the best thread on WP.

Imo it serves its purpose.
The members like having their arses kissed and the mods make sure that happens.

What is it's purpose you say? Each to their own. It also does a LOT of good for members here. SO SO many have recieved real, unbiased help for their problems.



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26 Nov 2009, 9:06 pm

^^ I don't understand this response. Please elucidate--at least indicate whether you are being hostile or beneficent.



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26 Nov 2009, 10:03 pm

CTBill wrote:
^^ I don't understand this response. Please elucidate--at least indicate whether you are being hostile or beneficent.


Both.



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27 Nov 2009, 12:28 am

Thank you hale_bopp. The point of this site is NOT to complain about it. At least this site is here, and the idea is that you can make it what you want it to be. If you're looking for help, someone will help you; if you're looking for a meetup...well, this site might make that possible; if you're looking for someone to ramble on about a pointless rant, then I'm your guy; if you're looking for a dumb, idiotic, angry, lonely person, then Bling! You win! It's me! If you're...

You get the idea.

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