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My understanding is YOU complained about being banned here without knowing why and so was your husband. Now you are
SOOOO happy to be a member that you would criticise someone who questions the VERY SAME SYSTEM THAT YOU WERE BANNED FROM?

Why the change of heart?

You complained about not knowing why all your WP accounts were banned, yet now you pretend like 'oh if you were banned it must have been for a reason and for the best'???? You were banned from WP League Girl, and you bitched about it in other forums, bagged Alex, and now you are going to criticise a new member for the same such confusion? Interesting.

Two different personas on two different forums...sounds fake to me.

I should DO WHAT? In private???

It's OK for other members to ;
1. Delete my posts
2. Attack me and swear at me
3. When I use the same tools back I AM THE ONE WHO IS ATTACKED?

LOL.

Do we know each other?

Not at all. You are two faced and weak, just using your pathetic actions as an example of the two faced membership profiles here.

Seems you are all brave here though. When in fact you are quite whingy about WP and it's members elsewhere.

Lot's of tough talk Blue Bean.

But we all know you are a cry baby at heart.

Little Flower, it is so obvious that you are not new. You are a stalker. You were not "concerned" for another member. If in fact you were not picking a fight, you misunderstood an exchange between two people who were having a conversation. I highly doubt you live in an area that does not have different cultures that communicate in different ways than yourself. If you do not feel welcome here it is possible that it is because ALL of your posts are about 1 subject. Honestly, why don't you just go away?

Ok LittleFlower, I think I've read enough... Saying Piss Off is a minor thing compared to being told to F off.
So I don't know why you're dwelling on it and after all, it happened in the past so therefore stays in the past.

Get over it, move on and start fresh otherwise I'll release the side you pretty much don't wanna see.

If you wanna make a point of being tougher than me why don't you log in with your original WP account and say all this?

OK, I can not let this go by without saying something.

What happened in the vid you posted was a very serious situation, and it was dealt with. Alex DOES CARE what happens with this community. Why do you think he created it? Also, changes were made as a result of that incident. This is one of the only forums sites on the internet were the rules are enforced and taken seriously. So don't go making accusations.
The situation was resolved, end of story.

I didn't conform. I follow the rules which includes not crossposting. Do I like and agree with everyone on this forum? Hardly. But part of growing up is learning to let things go and move on.

Okay, Flower. Let's see if you can understand this if it's explained in the simplest possible terms...

It doesn't matter what all your recent posts were about. What does matter is that you were committing a TOS violation called "spamming the forums" - that is, you were creating multiple threads, in multiple subforums, about the same topic, as quickly as you could post one and jump to the next subforum. You didn't seem to care whether the topic was germane to the subforum - you just wanted to b!tch and whine about what you perceived was a lack of support from Alex.

Since those threads were in violation of TOS, the mods would have been perfectly within both the rules and their rights to delete every last one of those threads, including this one, and even issued you a temp ban to reinforce their action. Instead, you are still permitted to post here, and this thread has been left in place to discuss your particular issues. And now you're complaining because they won't let you threadjack the entire forum because you have some kind of personal problem? And worse, one you won't even discuss openly, but instead choose to hide behind accusations of someone else being "unsupportive"? Kid, Alex provides this forum for us out of the goodness of his heart. You may have noticed there are no fees to sign up here; you're not even required to accept spam email to join here. It's entirely free, paid for by unobtrusive banner ads. (And with the right browser add-ons, you can even avoid those...) For all you know, he took time out of his own life (Alex does have a life, you know) to try to counsel those poor souls through PMs. If he did, we wouldn't necessarily know about it - the "P" stands for "Private", after all. How much more "support" do you expect him to provide???

And quit kvetching about the other threads being deleted, and demanding their reinstatement. You're starting to sound like Charlie Sheen. Just be happy you still have this one - for now...

Nothing's changed. I got banned for telling a moderator I didn't know someone was banned and there is nothing in the rules about telling your side of the story. I accidentally talked about a banned member. Wouldn't anyone complain if they got a rule reminder about talking about banned members because they didn't know that user was banned? I wouldn't have had a problem if she sent me a PM telling me this user is banned and asked me to not talk about him anymore. But I do have a problem when people expect me to be psychic. Then I bitched about the unfair warning I got for telling her I didn't know someone banned whoever she was talking about and then few hours later I was unable to login my account.

Did I break any rules after the final warning? No. I got banned when I didn't even break anything else. Then a week later I talked to alex and complained. He told me I wasn't banned and if I was, I would still be able to login my account and it would say I was banned. I told him I can't login because password isn't working. He offered to reset it. I told him to and he did. Within 24hrs it happened again, couldn't login my account. All this time I was unsure if it was a glitch or if I was banned. I kept thinking I was banned and then thinking it was a glitch. I recall two members here saying their passwords quit working and they be reset again and be back on here posting so I thought maybe that is what happened with me and I am not banned. So I tried my husband's account to see if the glitch would happen and it did so I knew I was being screwed with and was it still a coincidence? Then the next day bam my account was gone and my old one and his. I checked to see and I was sure it was no coincidence. Yes alex knows about it because I told him and he didn't seem to care or else he would have said something about it. My husband still gives me a hard time about it going "You got me banned from a forum" and we laugh about it because he is just messing with me. He didn't even care about his account or what happened to it. I wouldn't have used it if he said no.

So this is what really happened and I don't think it's that hard to understand. I have known couple other members who were on their final warning and didn't get banned so I know I was not banned for the past rules I have broken in the past and I didn't always know I broke a rule. Like I didn't know posting a link to another forum talking about a situation is posting an attack on another forum. After the warning for that, I then knew and didn't make a fuss about it. Okay I learned, move on, don't do it again. I also remember posting a thread in December 2009 and it was seen as an attack when I didn't even intend for it to me. It was meant as a fun thread, not to attack people and I wasn't attacking anyone, it got seen as one and I was given two PMs about it by two different mods after Lau had said in the locked thread he knows I didn't intend for it to be an attack and those two mods ignored that fact and acted like I did it on purpose.


I have gotten BS about how I kept breaking lot of rules and the same ones which is not true or else I would keep getting PMs and being told I provoked people here and if that was the case, why didn't I get a PM for those too? I have only gotten seven total in 2009 and two in January 2010. I will never know why me telling this mod that I didn't know someone was banned pissed her off so much she had to go after me. Then it pissed me off when I see her talk about that banned member, mmm double standard is it? She managed to send me a PM about discussing banned members and then a year later she talks about him. Also she has multiple accounts herself but yet deleted mine for that reason she claimed. That's why I say it's all BS. She will mind as well delete other peoples accounts and herself for "multiple accounts" and "breaking lot of rules" since she has broken them herself. I just think she had a vendetta against me and targeted me. One of my friends from here thinks she may have had that planned for months before it happened and I just happened to set myself up by accidentally talking about a banned member.

And I2 is a freedom of speech forum with no rules (except no violating the terms of service and you have to be 18 or older and no threatening the site and no spamming) so I can act there whatever I want and things I can't do here I can do over there. There is WP behavior and I2 behavior. Not fake. And hey have you noticed how everyone seems to change when they post there? And talk about 2007, I changed over the last four years and I behaved better as SG. I didn't go posting my fetish threads again since it was now against the rules and allowing myself to get influenced by I2 and ZOMG members. I don't remember seeing that in the rules when I first joined here so it must have been added. That could also be why I was welcome back as SG? I never knew why I was allowed that account TBH.

And hey there have been other people here who were welcomed back despite having other accounts. Take Sopho for example and punkykat sure has a original account she doesn't use anymore and PK is her second account. even richardbeson has two previous accounts and now richardbenson is his third. So I wasn't the only one here with multiple accounts. There is obviously a gray area in the rules here and it makes it confusing for us aspies to know what is acceptable and what isn't. If alex and the mods are okay with something, I assume it must be okay to do it even if it's in the rules it isn't okay. Swearing for example, people swear here and alex and the mods are okay with it. Even discussing fetishes seem fine just as long as it doesn't go too far or whatever tallyman has said.

And like I say if members were banned for breaking a rule, then just think how empty this forum be? And I am sure tons of members here have broken more than one rule and are still here such as me.

The difference between brown nosing and having your head stuck in the bosses keester is depth perception.

excuse me?

If that isn't clear enough nothing will be. The odds you will ever be a moderator by lobbying so heavily for it are not that high. If you act this way at work you'll never get along with your co workers.

I could stay here and debate this with you forever, but I withdrew the request and apologized for the lobbying. I am trying to put this entire ordeal behind me.

And BTW, the vid was an attempt at damage control, I developed an interest in the rules and I thought I would explore that interest oblivious to the fact that requests are looked down upon. Do I have to spell it out?

Don't worry about them PM. You stated your opinion. It was a good opinion. Stand by it. I didn't see it as brown nosing.