Surfman wrote:
One of the biggest general complaints against WP is negativity.
I see some members, usually young males, who start numerous threads [often more than 2 per day...]espousing the suffering without end of aspies.....
Personally, I see this as negative conditioning, and harmful to autistic members well being
I'm not sure if these are purposely sinister and/or motivated by causing suffering in others.... but that is how it appears to me
Yet, nothing is ever done to censure these degrading threads.
They are like water against rock, persistent and without end, wearing down any self esteem that members may have.... these negative thought forms wearing down hope and possible happiness
I hate how these posters are part of the landscape on WP..... while being a support site, WP also appears to condition members negatively, via these members many and ongoing thread starts....
I'm not allowed to name members, as I will be banned again, for challenging these members negative rhetoric.
And for that fact, this is my last post for now. I cannot sit back and let these members constantly put down and reduce others in such a subtle and covertly suggestive manner.
Kiss kiss kiss
Surfman
Ive been exchanging way too many messages a day with a female member and she left the site because of this(met elsewhere) so Ive been thinking about how to deal with the negativity.
In a way its a double-edged sword: You cant expect members to be happy at all times yet you cant let the negativity take over a certain board.
Should we make a limit of negative posts per week? Who decides which posts are acceptable and which are okay?...