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21 Oct 2018, 11:26 pm

Any mods around? LLW is on as user heatherspie. The reason I know this is he has sent a PM to my friend with a very clear suicide threat. She has contacted mods but hasn't had a reply yet. Just giving a heads up. This is escalating.


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21 Oct 2018, 11:32 pm

I must add that this message from user heatherspie was signed LLW so there is no mistaking his identity.


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21 Oct 2018, 11:47 pm

I had questioned him on the Getting to Know You sub forum as he seemed to be presenting himself as a mod. He used the term “gate-keeper”. While he responded to me there, I’ve had no PMs.



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22 Oct 2018, 2:39 am

He claimed to be a mod for other forums.



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22 Oct 2018, 3:19 am

Most of the mods got hate mail from his sockpuppet "heatheraspie" who has been banned.



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22 Oct 2018, 3:20 am

feeli0 wrote:
Any mods around? LLW is on as user heatherspie. The reason I know this is he has sent a PM to my friend with a very clear suicide threat. She has contacted mods but hasn't had a reply yet. Just giving a heads up. This is escalating.


Thanks, he's been banned. I got cca 15 messages now, I'm going through them all.

thanks for the update, this will be taken care off ASAP!



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22 Oct 2018, 3:26 am

Heatherspie PM received here last night.



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22 Oct 2018, 3:39 am

AnneOleson wrote:
I had questioned him on the Getting to Know You sub forum as he seemed to be presenting himself as a mod. He used the term “gate-keeper”. While he responded to me there, I’ve had no PMs.


OK, thanks! he's stories don't add up usually.

it seems he's sent a variation of a similar message to at least 10 people. Some of us were privileged enough to get them twice.

I'm thinking of making a sticky that no bullying will be allowed here - especially not emotional blackmailing. Most of us got a message where he's blaming us for everything, saying we have a "black heart" and similar nonsense. Maybe also a sticky which would expound all kinds of different emotional manipulation, so that people here wouldn't think it's their fault when such nutcases try to abuse them.



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22 Oct 2018, 4:00 am

Indeed, a sticky would be good. I still am very disturbed by the contents of his PM to my friend with the suicide intent - blaming her. Shockingly manipulative. I would not even know how to describe his behaviour as a public service warning. This is a caring forum where we do listen to each others hurts. There are very vulnerable people here and we all do our best to be supportive. When some ‘plays’ the victim in order to both gain sympathy AND to hurt others - what the heck? Its so destructive because we begin to be suspicious of everything. Just my thought, I hope this will all stop soon. Hugs to all.


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22 Oct 2018, 4:03 am

feeli0 wrote:
Indeed, a sticky would be good. I still am very disturbed by the contents of his PM to my friend with the suicide intent - blaming her. Shockingly manipulative. I would not even know how to describe his behaviour as a public service warning. This is a caring forum where we do listen to each others hurts. There are very vulnerable people here and we all do our best to be supportive. When some ‘plays’ the victim in order to both gain sympathy AND to hurt others - what the heck? Its so destructive because we begin to be suspicious of everything. Just my thought, I hope this will all stop soon. Hugs to all.


I'm very sorry that after all the abuse he's done to her, he's now blaming it on her. We got the same - B19, enviro, I, krafty, auntblabby, dominakee and I suspect some others, too got a variation of it, he's all blaming us for it all and threatening with suicide.

i'm wondering whether he can be reported to the police? since this is now cyberbullying. I'm not sure about the Dutch laws on bullying, but it's worth a try.

EDIT: Skilpadde got it too.



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22 Oct 2018, 4:12 am

I've just reported him to the police:

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Subject Cyber bullying
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Hello, I'm a moderator from the Wrong Planet forum, and one of your residents has been bullying people for months, and now after being banned, has sent a dozen messages to those same people he's been abusing for months, threatening with suicide and blaming them for everything. Please stop him from contacting our site. We have our member base to protect and this is now pure cyberbullying.



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22 Oct 2018, 4:17 am

He's posted a photo of himself in one of the forums and referred to himself as William in the message I received, in case they want to visit him in person.



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22 Oct 2018, 4:17 am

got this in response:

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22 Oct 2018, 4:18 am

domineekee wrote:
He's posted a photo of himself in one of the forums and referred to himself as William in the message I received, in case they want to visit him in person.


Yes, thanks, I've given them his mail address.



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22 Oct 2018, 4:21 am

Oh good, thank you.



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22 Oct 2018, 5:16 am

Well that didn't take long =|


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