Problem with Men on WP

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I'll ask women for their e-mail addresses and try to get to know them better without any intent of a romantic relationship. What makes you think they intend for this?
Furthermore, why would just women have access to such a symbol?

Yeah. I ahd a new guy start PMing me, and he was obviously pming other people too, because he acted like he had told me things when he didn't. and pretty much off the bat he asked for my number. even when I politely told him that I have a boyfriend, and have no interest in him.

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Did you tell one of the moderators which member this was?

that's interesting; me too i recently ( about 3 weeks ago) had a pm from a newbie who i'd never interacted with on a discussion, asking to make friends, which i completely ignored, have to admit mainly cos of totally not knowing how to respond. i thought it was just inappropriate to ask someone who not even "crossed paths" with in a discussion. A few days later i realised that if i had answered my reply would have been "why?" , so probably just as well didn't, if likely to encourage that kind of approach, which i now realise too is how things happened in the past; me innocently and honestly asking something like "why" in response to out of blue chat ups!!

there was an old post with a college photo of werbert somewhere.

I PM people lots...
just to be friends

I think I'm gonna stop now...
cause it seems people don't like that from what I read here
oh well
anyone wants to be my friend they can ask me for a change

(I don't mean those who I PM'ed and responded-if you respond I think you want to at least talk so if you dont wanna be friends or talk to me don't respond)

Last edited by Kilroy on 13 Dec 2007, 7:35 pm, edited 1 time in total.

cause women don't go around asking men for things like that
men are pigs!

I met Amanda from a random PM actually. Mind you I was on my WP leave at the time.

well thats good for you

I met a lot of people that way
good friends
but it seems people didn't like that afterall

I've gotten a few people PM me first...
people are very distant from me
which makes me rather mad
as I try to be outgoing and get crapped on

I think it's the times we live in - people in general have become very mistrustful of each other's motives.

Like men around children? Jeez, no wonder dad's have such a tough time...

Yes indeed. It is a well known tactic in custody battles to accuse the father of behaving improperly towards the children.

Yeesh, I may get in trouble. I mean, I LOVE playing with kids, I can really relate to them. I could work at a kindergarten, actually...

From what I've heard, you basically should stay away from any kids you're not the father of if you're a man (even though apparently a third of pedophiles are women). I heard of someone in England walking past a playground, a football was kicked out of the playground, he picked it up, kicked it back towards the kids and said something like 'hi, kids'.... and they started shouting 'pedo, pedo!'

Hasn't anybody heard of the delete key? I mean, if someone send you a pm or an email that you don't recognise, don't read it and delete the smegging thing. That way you can avoid all the hassle from people you think are 'out to get you'. BTW, most men are not only after one thing, it's just this mentality that Germaine Greer and her cronies put into womens' heads when all this Womens Lib crap started off. Female Eunuch, more like Female Nutcase. Because of all this, a lot of men don't know where they stand because of all this angst that feminist groups have spewed onto the general populace. I believe in treating women like women, and that is with respect and kindness, but some of these people would rather be treated like one of the guys, and that logic is totally screwed. Anyway, if you don't want people to try and chat you up or whatever, then do as I said, ignore them.