unconquered wrote:
I would like an "Other" category on diagnosis. Here's why: When I was a child and a young teenager, if we had a psychologist at the schools I attended, I most likely would have been diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome. We didn't, so I had to learn how to adapt to the NTs. It took a lot of years of pain and heartache, but I eventually adapted so well that when I sought a diagnosis in adulthood, the psychologist told me I did not have it because, among other things, I enjoyed socializing and I made eye contact. Apparently, that's impossible for someone with AS to enjoy talking to people in person (something I heavily disagree with the psychiatric community). Meanwhile, people who knew me also knew me as a child and "Aspies"/"auties" have told me that I have some traits that I still show on occasion. I've trained people that I've dated with AS (diagnosed and undiagnosed) how to communicate with others. I also do best on a GFCF diet.
Since I have never been diagnosed and I no longer qualify for a diagnosis, the most appropriate category listed on this site is now "Neurotypical." But I know that's really not accurate! This issue came to light because I met another autistic person who learned how to adapt, so I know I'm not the only one. I would like an "Other" category on diagnosis, as I don't fit neatly into any category anymore.
There are other people who would like this, as well. Just to note for Alex
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Mom to an amazing young adult AS son, plus an also amazing non-AS daughter. Most likely part of the "Broader Autism Phenotype" (some traits).