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22 Oct 2018, 5:22 am

Thank you for all the help you have provided, guys! It has really helped us piece together this case.

If anyone receives another PM (or other message) from him, or see someone post that looks like his way of posting, please report it immediately so we can deal with him.


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22 Oct 2018, 7:42 am

I've got this from the police:

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Dear Mr./Ms. X,



Thank you for bringing this matter to our attention. Unfortunately we can’t do a lot with only an e-mailadres. Do you have anymore information about this person? Maybe a name or adres?



We hope that we have satisfied your information request.


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Politie | Amsterdam | Regionaal Service Centrum
Elandsgracht 117, 1016 TT Amsterdam
PO box 2287, 1000 CG Amsterdam
T 0900 8844 / +31 3435 78844


Does anyone know his full name, or anything?

(thanks to Ferris) I've managed to extract IP from the mail he sent and that gives some proximity in the Netherlands, but I'll have to work on finding more information.



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22 Oct 2018, 8:01 am

Surely they must have a cybercrime division?


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22 Oct 2018, 1:13 pm

Booyakasha wrote:

(thanks to Ferris) I've managed to extract IP from the mail he sent and that gives some proximity in the Netherlands, but I'll have to work on finding more information.


Thanks for bringing my name into this , now the crazy fool will track me down when he is in the UK.

Actually that might be interesting , come at me Bro :lol:


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22 Oct 2018, 1:17 pm

feeli0 wrote:
Surely they must have a cybercrime division?


his IP (extracted from the mail he sent me) points to Utrecht, and I've told that to the dutch police. they said they'll notify their department there.

I've also messaged Alex who's the only one who can reach his full name here.



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22 Oct 2018, 1:18 pm

SaveFerris wrote:
Booyakasha wrote:

(thanks to Ferris) I've managed to extract IP from the mail he sent and that gives some proximity in the Netherlands, but I'll have to work on finding more information.


Thanks for bringing my name into this , now the crazy fool will track me down when he is in the UK.

Actually, that might be interesting, come at me Bro :lol:


if i didn't it would be unfair :jester:



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22 Oct 2018, 1:22 pm

Hey, Boo ... I hate to be a nooj and tell you how to do your job, but is this thread somehow stretching the "Thou shalt not discuss banned members" rule just a little bit?

Just askin'.



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22 Oct 2018, 1:28 pm

No, this time we need help from the forum members, in case they know something, and they deserve to know what's happening, especially those 10 that we know of who got his abusive messages; since this is now in the hands of police.



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22 Oct 2018, 1:34 pm

Booyakasha wrote:
feeli0 wrote:
Indeed, a sticky would be good. I still am very disturbed by the contents of his PM to my friend with the suicide intent - blaming her. Shockingly manipulative. I would not even know how to describe his behaviour as a public service warning. This is a caring forum where we do listen to each others hurts. There are very vulnerable people here and we all do our best to be supportive. When some ‘plays’ the victim in order to both gain sympathy AND to hurt others - what the heck? Its so destructive because we begin to be suspicious of everything. Just my thought, I hope this will all stop soon. Hugs to all.


I'm very sorry that after all the abuse he's done to her, he's now blaming it on her. We got the same - B19, enviro, I, krafty, auntblabby, dominakee and I suspect some others, too got a variation of it, he's all blaming us for it all and threatening with suicide.

i'm wondering whether he can be reported to the police? since this is now cyberbullying. I'm not sure about the Dutch laws on bullying, but it's worth a try.

EDIT: Skilpadde got it too.

Perhaps someone could make a note on how to effectively block members from sending pm's. A mod once told me how to modify the settings so unwanted PMs get deleted right away, but I don't recall how one goes about doing it.


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22 Oct 2018, 1:34 pm

Cool! Thanx fer splainin!
I received no such messages from him, btw.



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22 Oct 2018, 1:40 pm

blackicmenace wrote:
Perhaps someone could make a note on how to effectively block members from sending pm's. A mod once told me how to modify the settings so unwanted PMs get deleted right away, but I don't recall how one goes about doing it.


1) go to "rules, folders and settings" in messages page

2) add new rule:

if (sender) *next*
(is) *next*
(write user's name here) *next*

and select (delete message)

and then *addrule*

that should work, hopefully.


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22 Oct 2018, 1:46 pm

Kiprobalhato wrote:
blackicmenace wrote:
Perhaps someone could make a note on how to effectively block members from sending pm's. A mod once told me how to modify the settings so unwanted PMs get deleted right away, but I don't recall how one goes about doing it.


1) go to "rules, folders and settings" in messages page

2) add new rule:

if (sender) *next*
(is) *next*
(write user's name here) *next*

and select (delete message)

and then *addrule*

that should work, hopefully.

Thanks Kip :heart: maybe someone could make a sticky on how to do this, so if he shows up with more sock puppets members can easily find a way to block him.


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22 Oct 2018, 2:35 pm

i'll put it in the FAQ


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22 Oct 2018, 2:49 pm

Thanks Kip :D


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22 Oct 2018, 5:46 pm

Fnord wrote:
Cool! Thanx fer splainin!
I received no such messages from him, btw.


Had to google Nooj

If you are feeling left out I can oblige :wink:


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23 Oct 2018, 1:46 am

This is schocking . He was always so nice to people in haven.