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14 Dec 2007, 7:18 am

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Pandora wrote:

Yes indeed. It is a well known tactic in custody battles to accuse the father of behaving improperly towards the children.

Yeesh, I may get in trouble. I mean, I LOVE playing with kids, I can really relate to them. I could work at a kindergarten, actually...

From what I've heard, you basically should stay away from any kids you're not the father of if you're a man (even though apparently a third of pedophiles are women). I heard of someone in England walking past a playground, a football was kicked out of the playground, he picked it up, kicked it back towards the kids and said something like 'hi, kids'.... and they started shouting 'pedo, pedo!'

Ugh. No wonder they go crazy.

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14 Dec 2007, 12:48 pm

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I think it's the times we live in - people in general have become very mistrustful of each other's motives.

I don't trust anyone anymore
everyone is bad-or turns out to be bad
or something :roll:

this place is like a bear trap
offering friends and good times
what it doesn't tell you is those who rip out your f*****g heart and eat it infront of you
indeed it is foolish of many to think that people actually give a s**t
I really should have expected this I really should
this is what being nice does to you :roll:

in a spiteful place there is no room for the kind or weak, they are stamped out, til only the strong remain

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14 Dec 2007, 12:54 pm

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this is what being nice does to you :roll:

in a spiteful place there is no room for the kind or weak, they are stamped out, til only the strong remain

True strength is being nice and kind to others even when others are unkind to you. It is being who you are, even if that isn't always easy.

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14 Dec 2007, 1:00 pm

you know what
f**k them
f**k all of them!!
I don't care anymore
there-I don't, I've been nice and kind my whole life and gotten nothing
I try and complement people and they hate it
f**k them! :roll:
I think zomg was right (for a change)
blind niceness got me nowhere except being used, shat on and all sorts of other crap
and I look at myself and ask "why keep going?"
I am sick of it, what happened today changed me

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14 Dec 2007, 1:41 pm

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I don't care anymore
there-I don't, I've been nice and kind my whole life and gotten nothing
I try and complement people and they hate it
f**k them! :roll:

blind niceness got me nowhere except being used, shat on and all sorts of other crap
and I look at myself and ask "why keep going?"
I am sick of it, what happened today changed me

What happened today?

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14 Dec 2007, 1:42 pm

if you really care PM me...

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14 Dec 2007, 3:59 pm

Kilroy wrote:

you know what
f**k them
f**k all of them!!
I don't care anymore
there-I don't, I've been nice and kind my whole life and gotten nothing
I try and complement people and they hate it
f**k them! :roll:

That is because you probably have done that with the wrong people, not everyone appreciate kindness, sadly, but also, if that is shown too much, it wouldn't be a good thing. Kinda like showing extreme affection from a parent to their children (and the children getting annoyed) or anyone to their girlfriends or boyfriend or any relationshiop, could be a bad thing, I am not saying it is like that in this case, but it might be seen like that to some.

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I think zomg was right (for a change)

zomg being right for once? :shocking:

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blind niceness got me nowhere except being used, shat on and all sorts of other crap
and I look at myself and ask "why keep going?"
I am sick of it, what happened today changed me

well, you just said, blind niceness, as long as it is not blind that it would be ok, but then, I really can't say when though, there are people here who are nice but at the same time cautious which don't take their kindness away, they could help you with this I think.

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14 Dec 2007, 4:01 pm

no its everyone

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15 Dec 2007, 11:53 pm

That happened to me in the chat room. I stopped going in there because I was starting to get scared of who would start talking to me next.

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16 Dec 2007, 1:36 am

men in chatrooms are pigs!
I'm glad you had the common sence to know that

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16 Dec 2007, 7:02 am

Maybe it's just as well I've never gone into the chatroom then.

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16 Dec 2007, 7:17 am

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Maybe it's just as well I've never gone into the chatroom then.

I hate the chatroom, and I haven't even gone in it yet. I'm also slightly troubled by the fact that some users post there and nowhere else.

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19 Dec 2007, 8:12 pm

That's sad, on one side that a lot of women do get deluged by those sorts of requests by PM but at the same time sad that a lot of these guys are lonely and also know that women in general - Aspie or NT, don't take the initiative and that unless they do or say something nothing will ever happen for them. I've never done it just because what I think of myself or need to hold as my own social position in that regard has always outweighed any amount of loneliness - in some ways it feels a lot more honorable and some ways it almost feels like a lack of guts, real hard to call it. Its a Catch 22 for both sides and a rather depressing one at that.

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20 Dec 2007, 1:57 am

There's one guy who was asking me for my address, after sending me only two PMs. I don't really like that. This had happened, very recently.

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20 Dec 2007, 4:51 am

CockneyRebel wrote:

There's one guy who was asking me for my address, after sending me only two PMs. I don't really like that. This had happened, very recently.

What a nice kind way to introduce yourself!

"Hi, I'm not going to tell you my name, but instead I'm going to be totally forward and ask you where you live, even if you are traumatised!!"

Ugh.

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20 Dec 2007, 5:31 am

techstepgenr8tion wrote:

I don't think the women are against men who take inituitive but ones who come off too strong. I'm sure I can find a girl on here talk for awhile and after a significant time start to gain information slowly but if I pmed a girl twice and then was like "give me your address :: wink wink:: it wouldn't work its too fast. Personally I've met women who I met from the internet you do it on their time not yours and it never starts off as just lets meet. Things happen women develop feelings because I'm an completely 100% open guy, honest, and I care. This in some cases also puts me in the friend's zone which is hard to get out of if I was honestly looking for a new girl. I think if the men depicted here had went about in the way of just meeting a friend and then something developed it would be more productive. To go from stranger to romantic interest makes some women feel cheap... that is just going by my experiences with women since most of my friends are girls.

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