MrMark wrote:
iamnotaparakeet wrote:
My view is that if someone posts something against my religion or views, then they have opened the door for me to defend them.
Yes, when emotions run high, it can be hard to the difference between defending and attacking.
Emotions are irrelevant. "hard to the" Hard to what? Tell? No, that is not hard to tell. There is something to be said about Hegelian dialectics, but the thing is that usually the other people attack
me for what I believe. If their arguments don't hold up they usually become verbally abusive.
MrMark wrote:
It's like the difference between assertiveness and aqgresiveness. It takes some people half a lifetime to learn the difference. Some people never learn the difference.
Aggressiveness. They usually assert their beliefs and worldviews on me with
aggression. There's an
ss in the middle.
MrMark wrote:
It might be best to be meek and humble in one's religious views. After all, isn't humility a value in most major religions? Won't the meek inherit the Earth?
How about with any views, why relegate it to religion only?
MrMark wrote:
If your point is really sound, does it really need to be defended? If you're really secure in your beliefs, does it really matter what other people believe?
The security of my views and what I am forced to accept by experience and reason is not at stake. Also, when something that is considered "scientific", like vaccines causing Autism, and all the various nonsense there, if people are "secure in [their] beliefs, does it really matter what other people believe?" Well?
MrMark wrote:
Are free to allow people to believe what ever they want, and still feel okay yourself? If not, maybe you should pray to God for that freedom. It's a nice peaceful feeling.
Really now, it would be nice if people would be even handed in this. People can think whatever they want to. I don't care if I change their minds or not. But when it comes to them trying to get Christians to see "how wrong and stupid they are" nothing is done to prevent them from doing so. I suppose it's because they don't have a Bible which non-believers are free to misquote in their own favor. It amazes me how non-believers and pseudo-believers are the true Bible thumpers! Or in this case, not even the Bible but just something "religious sounding"...
Here is what the Bible says to me on this matter:
Quote:
1 Peter 3:13-16 ISV
13 Who will harm you if you are devoted to doing what is good?
14 But even if you should suffer for doing what is right, you are blessed. Never be afraid of their threats, and never get upset.
15 Instead, exalt Christ as Lord in your hearts. Always be prepared to give a defense to everyone who asks you to explain the hope you have.
16 But do this with gentleness and respect, keeping a clear conscience, so that those who speak evil of your good conduct in Christ will be ashamed of slandering you.
I am to defend my views. Sure, I need to work on the "gentleness and respect" issue,
but I shall not keep silent when I am challenged.