Joe90 wrote:
I think a lot of members are worried about being accused of it by each other, starting up gossip and false accusations across the forum. I actually worried for a moment that I might be accused of being one of the groomers, because I haven't been here for a while only in PMs so I thought ''oh no, what if other users think I'm the one grooming in PMs?''
Everyone: please report any accusations of this type that you see, or receive through PM.
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But I understand why you don't want to expose who it is, as it's a situation that should be dealt with confidentially. But, then again, revealing who the groomers are to the rest of us could be like a consequence, so that it may deter any grooming in the future if they know they might get publicly humiliated for it. But I can still see your point.
But a ritual humiliation is something we should avoid, and that should apply to
any banning - we shouldn't find ourselves in a situation deciding that banned member "A" should be strung up, but not banned member "B".
And from personal experience, no notice or possible public humiliation will act as a deterrent. Anonymity covers a multitude of sins.
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