Being banned from the chatroom

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Intensitysquared would be a better site because it's freedom of speech but I can't gaurentee you that members will like you there. While you would have the right to say there whatever you want, they have the right to say whatever they want to it and however they want to react to it and treat you there since it's a freedom of speech site.

If you look at posts on message board, as opposed to chat log, I never used these words (yes some posts can be considered racist but they were phrased in a way that does not use such words). As far as chat log goes, like I said I simply used these words in order to get an attention because the chat was extremely difficult to participate in.

Well the things you put in bold only refers to language and not to ideas. Since it is perfectly possible to convey ideas without use of that language I would be happy with that if that was the only restriction you were to impose on me (like I said the ONLY time I used langauge was in a chat room and it was only done to gain attention). But the part that I am unhappy about is that you have limitted me from expression ideas too. In fact I was given final warning before the language incident ever came up. And teh ideas is the only thing I am referring to when I am talking about free speech.

Anyway, I will follow the rules even though I disagree with them. I know I didnt before but I will from now on. But that doesnt change the fact that I dont like the rules; I am simply saying I will obey them regardless just to stay on this site. I am just warning you guys that I might fail to adequately respond to your questions since I will have to refrain from saying certain things that might be logically necessary to answer you. I am not happy about it but still I promise to obey whatever it is the rules say.

I am fine if people are blunt to me. The thing I dont like about intensitysquare though is that it looks more like a game than discussion. At least thats how it sounds when in the terms of services the members are given examples of various attack phrases they can use. So no I wont be offended but its more that I wont be taking it seriously.

Isn't it funny that in a community where we seek tolerance because of a condition that majorly impacts our lives, users expected to tolerate their intolerance?

People don't get banned from the chatroom without good reason, and, in most cases, without plenty of second chances. Permabans are always well-deserved. The original poster clearly earned it, and showed himself to be a bad apple within his first few minutes there.

Well I didn't get plenty of second chances.

Like I said by looking at the flow of a chat I couldnt immediately tell that racial slurs would be unwelcome there. The people looked VERY bizzar to me.

I mean maybe if I were more accustumed to the chats like this I would say "well they are well behaved they just have a leisurly conversation". But because I was not accustumed I just pictured a bunch of aggressive kids shouting at each other, so I figured I might as well shout too. In other words it was misinterpretation due to Asperger.

From the topic of #wrongplanet:

And if that wasn't enough:



And if you go to that page:



You didn't misinterpret anything - you had a whiney temper tantrum that no one was engaging with you, so you said some extremely offensive things and got banned. These are the facts, and they are not disputed.

In fact, you haven't done anything here to dispute that you didn't say these things, or didn't mean them - but rather that you are justified in saying hateful things about black people and gay people because that is what you believe. You are just simply wrong, and the fact that literally no one in this thread has come to your defense should be enlightening to you.

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Not welcome there? Really? Are you kidding me? No one likes racial slurs, you don't use them anywhere unless you want to get beaten up or get people very angry at you or kicked out of places and rejected and lose respect. It's not really a hidden rule you figure out because once you learn a word is bad and an insult and a hate speech and you then know to not ever use it because you have nothing against gays and black people. I am surprised someone wouldn't even know this.

You're lucky you only said them on the internet. All they could do was kick you out.

If you go to a bar with a bunch of drunk people, they are saying far worse things and get away with it. By the way one of the previous responders said that if they were to walk into the bar and curse at them the moment they enter they would be thrown out. Well I just learned something new I didnt know it before. I thought bars are all about being aggressive. But then again if i were to frequent bars I would have known. The problem is I never been to the bars before -- just like I never managed to participate in such chat rooms before -- which is why I cant really tell.

I didnt read the rules. I rarely do, because usually they are lengthy and usually they all say the same thing blindly copied from other websites, and dont necesserely reflect the actual situation.



And I thought that temper tantrums wont be any more bizzar than the chatroom as it was prior to my entry. If you walk into the room full of ppl shouting at each other, then it is okay to shout. If you walk into the room where everyone is polite and calm, then shouting is off limits. So I misinterpretted the situation in the chat prior to my entry.



I have stated that I was not against diversity as such but rather I was against the link between diversity and Asperger (I have in fact asked why not put diversity in other, non-aspie, chats). In other words, I was trying to defend aspies rather than just hate other groups for the hell of it.

Apart from that, I also made it clear that I normally dont use these words. I only used it in a chat environment to get attention. While its true that some of my "ideas" might be considered racist, I express said "ideas" without resorting to the insulting words.

That sounds like *your* problem, not mine nor the mods in the chat.




People were ignoring you because they were busy having their own conversations. This annoyed you - so you decided to say the most offensive thing you could come up with to force them to pay attention to you. Congratulations, it worked.



I don't give a damn what you were against or not, you have stated that you believe you shouldn't have to be lumped together with n----rs and f----ts - and that you believe you have a right to say that. Everything else you've said on the matter is just lipstick on a pig. You deserved what you got, period. That really is the end of the discussion.

But you weren't drunk.

Walked in on a giant flame-war...

It's not a flame war. It's heated and one participant is not behaving in a rational fashion, but it is far from an actual flame war.

Roman, you don't seem any more likely to hear me than anyone else, but what you've posted here does indeed make you sound like a distinctly unpleasant person. Not in the socially clueless way that autistic people can irritate others, but in the deliberate choice to use hate speech to describe others whom you deem to be unlike and inferior to you.

You are also completely wrong about "diversity" never being used in any other context. It is frequently used in many contexts, whether autistic people are involved or not.

There is no defense for your behavior in the chat room nor in this thread.

First of all, you were not in a bar. The analogy is utterly ridiculous.

Second, the analogy blows up in your own face. If you walked into any bar I've ever been in in my entire life and spewed the garbage you did in Chat, you WOULD MOST CERTAINLY BE THROWN OUT!! !! (And probably not without bodily harm I might add.)

Third,





So what you're saying is that you don't even know what the social rules are in bars, and if that's the case, what in the world are you doing using bars as an analogy for this, when you yourself have never even been to one?

Fourth, the way you're using this analogy to defend yourself, offers you no defense whatsoever. You are saying, in essence, "I don't have to follow the rules, because I don't know what the rules are."

And why don't you know what the rules are (a "fact," frankly I no longer believe at all)?



So you chose not to read the rules, then claim ignorance of the rules because you chose not to read them. And you "did not understand" what would be unacceptable, because you had never been in Chat before.

That's what you would like us to believe eh?

Well I for one, am not buying your BS.



And you are correct. The often are.

The pertinent question is: How do you know that????

There can be only ONE answer to that question: Because you have read TOS, rules etc. on other sites, and the vast majority of Chat sites and forums do not tolerate racism.

CONCLUSION:

You knew EXACTLY what you were doing.

You KNEW it was a rule breaker.

You are attempting to play us all for fools by being disingenuous.

If you interpret the last statement to mean you are lying, I'm personally quite comfortable with that.