SaveFerris wrote:
sly279 wrote:
This is schocking . He was always so nice to people in haven.
The same was said about the person who did it to me , in fact so much so that I was not believed at first.
It just goes to show that just because a member appears ok in their public posts it doesn't mean that they won't flip when in PM's ( where they are out of view )
Yeah, I saw similar years ago, back when I was a forum mod (just a geek coding site, so much less tricky than here!) It's a convenient way to gaslight people - "It must be you that's cranky, everyone else thinks I'm lovely, just go look at my posts." FWIW, I thought LLW's posts were a bit over-familiar sometimes, but I wouldn't have suspected anything so abusive from his posts alone.
And big hugs to the mods for dealing with this, and for the way that you've dealt with it. One of the reasons I've stuck with WP is how well you look after us compared to the mod's on some other autism websites.
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