Mark198423 wrote:
Most of that is very much dependant on the circumstances and some aren't acurate either:
If I pick up a magazine, watch TV, or play music, I can be certain my sexual orientation will be represented.
If I pick up one of the readily available gay mags up this isn't the case.
Gay magazines developed because most magazines were aimed at straight audiences and weren't addressing the needs of gay people. When I was a teenager, I'd read Seventeen and CosmoGirl, but the dating advice was aimed at straight girls. Other than the obligatory "I'm a lesbian" article they'd do once every year, there was nothing for me.
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I did not grow up with games that attack my sexual orientation (IE fag tag or smear the queer)
I didn't grow up with any such games about either gender, how many did?
Lucky you. For most people, that's not the case.
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I am never asked to speak for everyone who is heterosexual.
I've pretty much been asked this by a few gay guys.
Oh, once you had to be the token straight guy! That invalidates the other 99% of the time when gay people have to be the spokespeople for their sexuality!
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People of my gender do not try to convince me to change my sexual orientation.
So why don't the guys stop chatting me up when I tell them I'm straight? This probably happens more to straight guys than gay.
There's an entire industry devoted to making LGBTQ people conform to a heterocentric society.
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I am not identified by my sexual orientation.
I am when around mainly gay people.
You're talking about a specific circumstance. Most of the time, a gay person in a group of people is going to be "the gay guy".
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I'm not grouped because of my sexual orientation.
See previous response.
See mine.
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