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sinsboldly
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Location: Bandon-by-the-Sea, Oregon
Meadow wrote:
*hugs* I know...I was sobbing too, for quite some time. I didn't do anything to deserve it.
Ana54_Again wrote:
When ShadesOfMe was banned by Lau she started feeling like hurting herself. Me too, but I couldn't do it. I tried, with a pen and then a knife, but it was too gross and painful.
So you ladies are saying that you self harm if anyone crosses what you think is 'unfair' and so everyone must do as you say or you will threaten more self harm? Is that how that works?
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sinsboldly wrote:
Meadow wrote:
*hugs* I know...I was sobbing too, for quite some time. I didn't do anything to deserve it.
Ana54_Again wrote:
When ShadesOfMe was banned by Lau she started feeling like hurting herself. Me too, but I couldn't do it. I tried, with a pen and then a knife, but it was too gross and painful.
So you ladies are saying that you self harm if anyone crosses what you think is 'unfair' and so everyone must do as you say or you will threaten more self harm? Is that how that works?
Don't put words in my mouth! I never said anything of the kind!!
sinsboldly
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Joined: 21 Nov 2006
Gender: Female
Posts: 13,488
Location: Bandon-by-the-Sea, Oregon
Meadow wrote:
sinsboldly wrote:
Meadow wrote:
*hugs* I know...I was sobbing too, for quite some time. I didn't do anything to deserve it.
Ana54_Again wrote:
When ShadesOfMe was banned by Lau she started feeling like hurting herself. Me too, but I couldn't do it. I tried, with a pen and then a knife, but it was too gross and painful.
So you ladies are saying that you self harm if anyone crosses what you think is 'unfair' and so everyone must do as you say or you will threaten more self harm? Is that how that works?
Don't put words in my mouth! I never said anything of the kind!!
just do a search on your username, Aspieartist, there are posts everywhere how you have to have special treatment because of your prior abuse and sensitive feelings. Your own words tell the story
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sinsboldly wrote:
Meadow wrote:
*hugs* I know...I was sobbing too, for quite some time. I didn't do anything to deserve it.
Ana54_Again wrote:
When ShadesOfMe was banned by Lau she started feeling like hurting herself. Me too, but I couldn't do it. I tried, with a pen and then a knife, but it was too gross and painful.
So you ladies are saying that you self harm if anyone crosses what you think is 'unfair' and so everyone must do as you say or you will threaten more self harm? Is that how that works?
Where did you get that assumption from? Nothing they said indicated that at all. Clearly after being banned from a SUPPORT WEBSITE for no good reason they were distraught, like I was sinsboldly after you accused me of making up a suicide thread to "get attention" and that I was "crying wolf". You gave me the whole "did you hear of the boy that cried wolf" nonsense. Suicide is a serious thing. Look at what happened to Starbuline, or have you forgotten?
sinsboldly wrote:
Meadow wrote:
sinsboldly wrote:
Meadow wrote:
*hugs* I know...I was sobbing too, for quite some time. I didn't do anything to deserve it.
Ana54_Again wrote:
When ShadesOfMe was banned by Lau she started feeling like hurting herself. Me too, but I couldn't do it. I tried, with a pen and then a knife, but it was too gross and painful.
So you ladies are saying that you self harm if anyone crosses what you think is 'unfair' and so everyone must do as you say or you will threaten more self harm? Is that how that works?
Don't put words in my mouth! I never said anything of the kind!!
just do a search on your username, there are posts everywhere how you have to have special treatment because of your prior abuse and sensitive feelings. Your own words tell the story
You're full of crap. You have a real way of manipulating a situation to your own liking. I truly believe that justice with prevail and you will be dealt with. It would never be me to ask for special treatment. You appear to belong on a psych ward.
sinsboldly wrote:
Meadow wrote:
*hugs* I know...I was sobbing too, for quite some time. I didn't do anything to deserve it.
Ana54_Again wrote:
When ShadesOfMe was banned by Lau she started feeling like hurting herself. Me too, but I couldn't do it. I tried, with a pen and then a knife, but it was too gross and painful.
So you ladies are saying that you self harm if anyone crosses what you think is 'unfair' and so everyone must do as you say or you will threaten more self harm? Is that how that works?
Merle quit whilst you're behind. You treat this place like your own personal fiefdom and so I find it a little more than ironic about what you now tell these people about "everyone must do as THEY say". You don't like what people say and BAN!! You need to appreciate that people are allowed to hold differing views as yourself and that lording over marginalised members of society on here and throwing in crappy little digs like the ones you did to these two ladies is not the way to be a [s]human[/s] mod.
roadracer wrote:
wow, is anyone really accomplishing anything by excalating this, other then making each other even more mad? WERE IS ALEX, I think he needs to lock these threads before it turns into a all out boxing match (if it already didnt)
Best thing I can suggest mate is to avert your eyes or look at other threads. This has been coming for a while and is complex and needed.
sinsboldly wrote:
alex wrote:
I am not aware of entire threads disappearing.
If this was caused by a moderator, the intent was clearly malicious, and that person will never be a moderator on my forum (or any other one for that matter).
If this was caused by a moderator, the intent was clearly malicious, and that person will never be a moderator on my forum (or any other one for that matter).
so in one sweeping gesture, you think of only one reason, the very worst you could think of and you throw every one of your moderators under the bus. Alex, the saddest thing is I actually thought when the chips were down, you be a better man than you are.
Merle
You were the very first to react and in such a strong way at what seems very (surprisingly) reasonable from Alex.
I think you are worried what he will find.
I think you are as guilty as hell but that is my personal opinion based on your interaction with me and others.
I hope Alex finds what he is after and I hope that he can resolve the issues and I REALLY hope a big part of it is making sure that you are no longer a mod at this board. You don't deserve it and your behaviour is appalling.
Ana54_Again wrote:
Just confess it! Just let it all out! It will be easier for you if you just admit it. Don't worry about your mod status; it won't last long anyway. But everyone loves to hear a good confession.
Yeah. In the same way as the Romans loved to see blood on the sands of the arena. And glad it isn't their own.
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Quatermass wrote:
I find it wonderful that, the moment we lose our moderation privileges, how swiftly the membership shows their gratitude to our service. Or at least, I hope, a minority.
When we moderate, we do it for the good of the forum as a whole. I take a utilitarian approach to moderation. That means the strongest amount of good to the most amount of people. If other people are disruptive, and continue to do so, well, we will ban them. This, first and foremost, is a support site for people with AS, not a shooting range or a chance to show off that you or your opinion is foremost amongst all others.
And this is how you treat us in return? You disgust me. Pathetic, petty little minds who cannot get over slights either imagined or exaggerated as justification for doing what you want, regardless of how others feel. You are poor examples of the human race as a whole, regardless of whether or not you have Asperger's, autism, or are an NT.
When we moderate, we do it for the good of the forum as a whole. I take a utilitarian approach to moderation. That means the strongest amount of good to the most amount of people. If other people are disruptive, and continue to do so, well, we will ban them. This, first and foremost, is a support site for people with AS, not a shooting range or a chance to show off that you or your opinion is foremost amongst all others.
And this is how you treat us in return? You disgust me. Pathetic, petty little minds who cannot get over slights either imagined or exaggerated as justification for doing what you want, regardless of how others feel. You are poor examples of the human race as a whole, regardless of whether or not you have Asperger's, autism, or are an NT.
You Quartermass, are a souped up, righteous little prat. You have this by reputation and it comes through in flying colours here.
You think that your services ought to be greeted with streamer and wolf whistles?
Why ARE your mod powers taken away? Chances are because YOU or one of your mod friends can not be trusted. What's more YOU seem to not be in a position to have helped avert such a position. It is not the only time the mods here have been called into question is it. Far from it. There is however little members can do to address things individually when a mod takes a "utilitarian approach to moderation". That very concept is full of belief that YOU personally have the best interests and intellect for making a lot of crappy decisions that occur through poor moderation.
Tell me about the effectiveness of the mods around Oct 2005. Slight issue with a young man called William Freund. Tell me about "strongest amount of good?"
"You disgust me"? "You are poor examples of the human race" Sit the hell down Princess and hope that you can prove yourself worthy in future to be respected by members here. Where you are sitting now is outside the Principals office whilst he investigates you and your other staff members. You MAY avoid punishment but it is hardly a position of self--righteousness and acting in the interests of all you should be adopting.
Members here have every reason to be angry with you and the mods that have let this board down. A bit of humility is what you need.
sinsboldly wrote:
Meadow wrote:
*hugs* I know...I was sobbing too, for quite some time. I didn't do anything to deserve it.
Ana54_Again wrote:
When ShadesOfMe was banned by Lau she started feeling like hurting herself. Me too, but I couldn't do it. I tried, with a pen and then a knife, but it was too gross and painful.
So you ladies are saying that you self harm if anyone crosses what you think is 'unfair' and so everyone must do as you say or you will threaten more self harm? Is that how that works?
That was rather callus of you, cutting or self harm is not something done for attention, or as a threat, I do it to feel some relief in my miserable existence, people who cut are being overwhelmed by stressful situations, I am really surprised that you would say this, as self harm is common with people on the spectrum
Friskeygirl wrote:
sinsboldly wrote:
Meadow wrote:
*hugs* I know...I was sobbing too, for quite some time. I didn't do anything to deserve it.
Ana54_Again wrote:
When ShadesOfMe was banned by Lau she started feeling like hurting herself. Me too, but I couldn't do it. I tried, with a pen and then a knife, but it was too gross and painful.
So you ladies are saying that you self harm if anyone crosses what you think is 'unfair' and so everyone must do as you say or you will threaten more self harm? Is that how that works?
That was rather callus of you, cutting or self harm is not something done for attention, or as a threat, I do it to feel some relief in my miserable existence, people who cut are being overwhelmed by stressful situations, I am really surprised that you would say this, as self harm is common with people on the spectrum
This is Sins and part of the reason why he is a bad Mod for a Support Forum.
He is a tumour that needs to be removed.
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