Ah no - "Duncan" is not an effective date formatting string.
I've reset it so your timezone is GMT and the date format string is: D M d, Y H:i
This should at least give something more readable...
You'll note in your profile settings next to the "Forums Date format" text box is "The syntax used is identical to the PHP date() function" where date() is a link to a page which explains the various characters you can use to format how the forum date and time are displayed for you.
So the string I've provided D M d, Y H:i will give you:
D A textual representation of a day, three letters
M A short textual representation of a month, three letters
d Day of the month, 2 digits with leading zeros
,
Y A full numeric representation of a year, 4 digits
H 24-hour format of an hour with leading zeros
:
i Minutes with leading zeros
Or as displayed on a thread: Sat Feb 02, 2013 15:03
(note that spaces and punctuation characters included in the format string are also used in the final display)
Go to your profile settings and choose the timezone correct for your location, and use the information provided for the date() function to format the display as you'd like it.
The false PM count can happen where someone sends you a PM but deletes it before you've had a chance to read it, which does not correct the message count at your PM inbox.
Another possible cause is a PM scammer who sent you a PM, but has since had their account closed. When we do that with scammers, any pending PMs they might have sent are also deleted.
The count would normally correct itself as soon as you visit your Inbox, found on the link at the top right of any WP screen.
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