Is there any way I can slightly alter my username?

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18 Apr 2021, 7:00 pm

I'm just fed up with people keep mistaking me for a guy here. I have it in my profile info and my signature that I'm a female but sometimes people don't always look and then people still think I'm a guy.

Is there any way a site administrator can just feminise (if that's a word?) my username, such as Jo90, as Jo is usually a feminine alteration to Joe.

Please there must be something a forum administrator can do. I believe sometimes people who mistake me for a guy feel embarrassed afterwards, but sadly few decide to personally attack me because of it.


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18 Apr 2021, 8:46 pm

Joe90 wrote:
Please there must be something a forum administrator can do.

That's what I thought too when I messaged an admin a few days ago, but they told me that it's technically impossible, and that the only way is to create a new account and abandon your old one.

I didn't have any strong reason to change my name though (just "didn't like my old one"). Not sure if that's a factor or not.


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18 Apr 2021, 11:23 pm

Maybe an avatar would help?


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19 Apr 2021, 6:07 am

^ That's a very good idea.


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19 Apr 2021, 8:44 am

Here is one that may work for you, Joe:

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It would have to be squeezed down, but it might work.  More Here.


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19 Apr 2021, 12:02 pm

Thank you but I don't know how to make it my avatar. Do you have anything more colourful and more woman-like? :wink:


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19 Apr 2021, 12:07 pm

^ Once you have an image let me know and I'll shrink it for you so it can be used as an avatar.


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19 Apr 2021, 12:22 pm

I think an avatar image is always a good idea. For me at least it helps a lot in identifying a person throughout the forum, regardless of any implied information in the image -- like, there's at least one other guy who uses a female avatar, but I remember he's a guy anyway, because I remember him (partly thanks to his distinctive avatar). As for simply making your gender immediately clear though, I think the pink part of your signature right now is doing the trick pretty well.


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19 Apr 2021, 12:37 pm

Using a feminine avatar may help. Do you have a female character you like?


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19 Apr 2021, 1:58 pm

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Using a feminine avatar may help. Do you have a female character you like?


I'm not sure, as having a female character as my avatar might not always make it obvious that I am female.

I would like Marie from The Aristocats as my avatar, as I don't think many males will have that, but I don't know how to post pictures on WP.


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19 Apr 2021, 2:05 pm

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Do you like any of these, Joe?

I can size them for you if you pick one, or I can look for more pictures of Marie.

I'd be glad to help. :heart:


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19 Apr 2021, 2:07 pm

I'd like the third one. :)

Thank you Isabella, and all the other people who posted in this thread too.

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19 Apr 2021, 2:08 pm

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Third one, or this? lol


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19 Apr 2021, 2:13 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:
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Third one, or this? lol


Yeah, I like that one. :) :)


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19 Apr 2021, 2:22 pm

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This should be the right size.

Do you need help making it your avatar?

Save it on your desktop and then let me know.


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19 Apr 2021, 2:25 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:
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This should be the right size.

Do you need help making it your avatar?

Save it on your desktop and then let me know.


Yes I'd like you to help. :)
I've saved it on my phone.


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