kraftiekortie wrote:
Sometimes, people get into arguments with other people on the Site.....and then they don't feel good on the Site. So they leave.
Sometimes, people are "triggered" by something that they see within the Site......and they're traumatized......and they don't want to experience the trauma.....so they leave the Site.
Sometimes, there are trolls who want to impose their agenda upon the Site. Or just want to have fun at our expense. When they find that they can't impose their agenda upon us, or they stop having fun, they leave the Site. Sometimes in a huff. And I say to them, "C'est La Vie!"
thanks, i find this an interesting insight. i think i am also interested in the why, not just the where that i put in my original post. on that basis, i am particularly interested in the history because this is an ND community and so many of us only find social connections online... so if so many users are no longer on here it just makes me wonder where they are finding their connection and communication because this must be one of the biggest platforms out there. My guess is that the big commercial platforms are far more triggering and harmful (and less useful too). So it is a bit of a puzzle. I do realise that many people don't like any kind of 'conflict' and as soon as you are on a user generated content platform you are exposed to that. But I am still then puzzled as to what so many eg. aspies do with their social time allotment during a day. Maybe they just don't and are busy reading, researching and doing their special interests, gaming, doing some sport/exercise etc. I don't spend a huge amount of time here but I have the need to do online interactions regularly - if not here then it would have been another forum i used regularly for c. 5 years (a niche cycling forum) etc.
sorry i feel a bit rambley today so may not be making sense. a bit worn down from the week.