Curious. In the short period (less than three years) I have been aware of Asperger's syndrome, I have met (in real life) rather a lot of aspies (and their relations).
In the UK, we have an organisation called "Mind". I seem to recall the first time I met another diagnosed aspie was via their "walk in" place, moderately local to me. I literally did just that - I walked in, off the street, without any idea what the organisation was.
At around the same time, I joined a "Social Group", organised by the National Autistic Society, which I am now even more active in, as I'm acting as a representative for the local group at regional meetings.
Via WrongPlanet, I've also met up (in real life, again) with a few people. Notably Smelena (NT, but has her boys...) and Lemon. I've narrowly missed connecting up with the bunch of WPers , in London - mainly because I'm not too good at organising such things in advance.
Recently, I've done some work at a college and a residential home, where I've met... oh... I guess it must be another forty or so aspies.
I'm now starting to be hit by the "small world" syndrome, as I now run into other aspies that cross over between the groups I've mentioned. The latest was a guy who came along to the NAS reps meeting, and confused me, because I knew I recognised him, but couldn't place from where. It turned out he lives in a satellite house, run by the people who ran the residential home, and he had happened to meet me a couple of times there, visiting.
The more I meet, the more I understand me.
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"Striking up conversations with strangers is an autistic person's version of extreme sports."
Kamran Nazeer