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01 Feb 2009, 4:50 pm

Um, it saying: "Grow up!" to someone else considered to be a personal attack or an insult?
ed called me on this here: http://www.wrongplanet.net/posts88956-start375.html
But I dont see his name on the list of active moderators.... :roll:



01 Feb 2009, 5:00 pm

It can be a personal attack but it depends on the situation.


There are other mods on here besides, Alex, MrMark, Lau, Sinboldly, and QM. Their names are in green when they are browsing the forum.



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01 Feb 2009, 5:07 pm

Spokane_Girl wrote:
It can be a personal attack but it depends on the situation.


There are other mods on here besides, Alex, MrMark, Lau, Sinboldly, and QM. Their names are in green when they are browsing the forum.


Well is he a mod?



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01 Feb 2009, 5:24 pm

Haliphron wrote:
Spokane_Girl wrote:
It can be a personal attack but it depends on the situation.


There are other mods on here besides, Alex, MrMark, Lau, Sinboldly, and QM. Their names are in green when they are browsing the forum.


Well is he a mod?


surprise. Ed has been a mod for quite a long time. He has all the bells and whistles of any mod. If he is modding, then more power to him, we welcome any and all mods to activate at any time.

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01 Feb 2009, 5:41 pm

sinsboldly wrote:
Haliphron wrote:
Spokane_Girl wrote:
It can be a personal attack but it depends on the situation.


There are other mods on here besides, Alex, MrMark, Lau, Sinboldly, and QM. Their names are in green when they are browsing the forum.


Well is he a mod?


surprise. Ed has been a mod for quite a long time. He has all the bells and whistles of any mod. If he is modding, then more power to him, we welcome any and all mods to activate at any time.

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errrr........... :?

In that case Merle, what about my question? Did you view the link? Telling someone to Grow Up isnt really a personal(ized) insult as much as it is a sharp criticism of their behaviour and style of argument.



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01 Feb 2009, 5:46 pm

Haliphron wrote:
sinsboldly wrote:
Haliphron wrote:
Spokane_Girl wrote:
It can be a personal attack but it depends on the situation.


There are other mods on here besides, Alex, MrMark, Lau, Sinboldly, and QM. Their names are in green when they are browsing the forum.


Well is he a mod?


surprise. Ed has been a mod for quite a long time. He has all the bells and whistles of any mod. If he is modding, then more power to him, we welcome any and all mods to activate at any time.

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errrr........... :?

In that case Merle, what about my question? Did you view the link? Telling someone to Grow Up isnt really a personal(ized) insult as much as it is a sharp criticism of their behaviour and style of argument.


would you take it as an insult if someone said it to you? that is usually the true test of what is insulting or not. . .

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04 Feb 2009, 4:18 pm

'Grow Up'. That about the most horrible, vulgar and just downright low insult I've ever seen tossed at anybody. It almost makes me ashamed of being almost human.


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04 Feb 2009, 9:12 pm

"Grow up" is almost universally viewed as an insult.

I see in the "active mods" sticky that we have a new one. Who's tinky? I don't remember seeing him/her around WP, but maybe we're just active in different parts of the board.


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04 Feb 2009, 10:01 pm

Would saying it to a bully or to a jerk be bad?

I mean that's what I was taught when I was nine. Tell people to grow up when they tease me.



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04 Feb 2009, 10:06 pm

Spokane_Girl wrote:
Would saying it to a bully or to a jerk be bad?

I mean that's what I was taught when I was nine. Tell people to grow up when they tease me.

It's not an effective way of dealing with bullies. But then, what is?


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07 Feb 2009, 12:22 pm

Orwell wrote:
"Grow up" is almost universally viewed as an insult.

I see in the "active mods" sticky that we have a new one. Who's tinky? I don't remember seeing him/her around WP, but maybe we're just active in different parts of the board.

Tinky is a very active member, mostly in the Random Discussion forum.

She's very silly and funny. She's good people.


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07 Feb 2009, 1:58 pm

Orwell wrote:
Spokane_Girl wrote:
Would saying it to a bully or to a jerk be bad?

I mean that's what I was taught when I was nine. Tell people to grow up when they tease me.

It's not an effective way of dealing with bullies. But then, what is?


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07 Feb 2009, 3:12 pm

CelticRose wrote:
Tinky is a very active member, mostly in the Random Discussion forum.

She's very silly and funny. She's good people.

Ah, I see. I don't normally go in the Random Discussion forum.


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07 Feb 2009, 3:14 pm

sinsboldly wrote:
Orwell wrote:
Spokane_Girl wrote:
Would saying it to a bully or to a jerk be bad?

I mean that's what I was taught when I was nine. Tell people to grow up when they tease me.

It's not an effective way of dealing with bullies. But then, what is?


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:lmao:

Well, OK, but I meant effective AND legal.


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07 Feb 2009, 4:49 pm

Orwell wrote:
sinsboldly wrote:
Orwell wrote:
Spokane_Girl wrote:
Would saying it to a bully or to a jerk be bad?

I mean that's what I was taught when I was nine. Tell people to grow up when they tease me.

It's not an effective way of dealing with bullies. But then, what is?


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:lmao:

Well, OK, but I meant effective AND legal.


no jury of my peers would convict me, Orwell!

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07 Feb 2009, 6:27 pm

sinsboldly wrote:
no jury of my peers would convict me, Orwell!

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Ooh, that would be an interesting loophole. "But, your Honor, I have to be tried by a jury of my peers! It has to be 12 autistic serial killers!"


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