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Katie123
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08 Jul 2011, 7:35 am

I go to a school call the Hiram G Andrews Center in Johnstown, Pa. I have a few good friends but recently one of those friends almost gave up on me cause i didn't know how to tell her when we were at her house over the 4th of July weekend that i had shutdown. Now apparently her whole family hates me and i don't know how to make things right for her with her family. I just want to make things right for her with her family and also for me at school. I have a hard time fitting into the social order here at my school. It seems like even in college there are a lot of cliques. I wish I knew how to fit in up here at my college. I just don't know how to though does anyone have any ideas for me.


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08 Jul 2011, 3:51 pm

Katie123 wrote:
I go to a school call the Hiram G Andrews Center in Johnstown, Pa. I have a few good friends but recently one of those friends almost gave up on me cause i didn't know how to tell her when we were at her house over the 4th of July weekend that i had shutdown. Now apparently her whole family hates me and i don't know how to make things right for her with her family. I just want to make things right for her with her family and also for me at school.


I suggest you tell your friend that you value her friendship and apologize for your behavior. If she doesn't accept the apology, she's probably not a friend worth having.

Katie123 wrote:
I have a hard time fitting into the social order here at my school. It seems like even in college there are a lot of cliques. I wish I knew how to fit in up here at my college. I just don't know how to though does anyone have any ideas for me.


I noticed your school has a recreation department (see link below). Perhaps you could contact them and see if they have any recommendations for you?
http://www.portal.state.pa.us/portal/se ... ion/608249



Katie123
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11 Jul 2011, 4:07 pm

Thank you so much for replying my friend and i have since the incident happened have talked about it and she accepted my apology.

And i will try to talk to the rec department here at HGA and ask what i can do.


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