Holy crap you're going to MIT!?!?!?!?! CONGRATULATIONS!! !! !! !! !! !!
My daughter is going to a community college and majoring in culinary arts. She is going to go there for two years and then take other courses to also get a degree in pastry arts.
Woah, MIT. Serious congrats and props on that for real!! !
As for the checks and stuff, did you send your relatives in China an invitation to your graduation? Thats why my daughter got the checks. She sent them to all the relatives. Then again, thats the custom here, at least in the South and in our family. An invitation to something that you can't go to, like a wedding, a shower, a graduation, etc is really just to let you know so you can send a gift or at least a card. Some just sent cards and that's ok too. She's put them all up in her room. Is that a common custom in China to send a gift or a card or something when someone sends you an invitation to something they know you can't come to? It sounds like it's pushing for gifts, but it's not. You put a calling card with your name on it, and a photo inside the invitation and the person you sent it to puts the whole thing in their photo album. We have lots of those in an album I have just for invitations to weddings and graduations and also funeral cards and obituaries.
MIT. Wow. I'm seriously impressed. I'm happy with her choice though, and she's happy with it. One thing about her major, we can eat all the homework and all the practice projects! Try that with sicence
Serious props to you!
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