I'm being bullyed and i don't know what to do

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Love your avetar.

As you know i like cats!

But joking aside its worn me down so far

I was bullied in school, when I was your age.

Jimbo, I am sorry that you are finding school life so tough. The bullies really are making your life difficult. I cant believe your school are not trying to put something in place to stop this. I work in a school and this definitely would not be allowed to happen, especially over such a long period of time.

I have to say though, from a teaching perspective, going and hitting the bullies isnt going to do you any favours and isnt going to get the school on side with you. If anything you could be the one that ends up excluded, and whilst you might hate school so much that this seems a good option it doesnt solve anything.

What do your family think of the situation? Have you been given the option to change schools?

Sorry this is happening to you, I was the same way when I was your age... don't know what else to say besides don't do anything dumb.

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Well james heres my advice:

BEAT THE HOLY s**t OUT OF THOSE f*****g BASTARDS UNTIL THEY CRY TO THEIR MOMS.

There,problem solved.

DON'T let them get the better of you. They are fools. They don't have anything better to do. They are PATHETIC!

They will probably end up being a janitor, or maybe even worse, a beggar! And oh yeah, if they do it again, then just pretend they stand there in their underpants.

But the main goal of this post is to drill this into you:

They are FOOLS. They are PATHETIC.

Bullies are idiots. Even if they're smart and intelligent, if they bully it brings out the idiot in them.
After seeing that site and those videos I feel more confident about standing up for bullies at school, because I thought that standing up for myself would only make the situation worse (I'm not saying that I'm being bullied ATM, but if it happens) as they deserve to be corrected.
What I have found is that some of my bullies are actually quite smart, but aren't as smart as me. Some are just thickos.

Take no crap! Clearly tell them to stop it and that it affects you.

There are two words that clearly describe a bully: Total Bastard.

Think that you have an astonishing ability that they don't - which is the ability to think.

If they're stronger than you then the good old kick in the nuts works wonders with those a-holes.

I've actually found that that usually just pisses people off. Aim for the knees.

The solar plexus actually works best I find.

Public school teachers can be crappy when it comes to dealing with bullies. Parents have to know if they can count on an administrator, or if they are worthless.

When I was that age when my parents finaly made the school get involved, the 8th grade dean got angry that he had to actualy do something. His solution just pissed the other kids off and singled me out in such a way that everyone knew that I was responsible. He basicaly punished me for getting my parents to get on his case and making him work. He made things worse for me.

Anyway I hope you can get some help, and can settle this issue better than I did back then. There are lots of resources out there for you that I wish I had at your age.

I had major bully problems when I was your age. I solved it by (and I know this is a really really horrible idea) becoming friends with some gang members. They approached the main instigators of the bullying and notified them that any further bullying would result in violent reprecussions. Problem solved.