When do you tell a teacher you have Aspergers

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nikaTheJellyfish
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08 Jul 2014, 11:43 pm

There is a point to having some vague assignments. I hate them as well, but what your professor is saying has some merit. They want you to be creative, think outside the box, and learn to not worry about the rules as much. Since the real world will lack the rules us Aspies tended to love in school, this is not a bad skill to learn, though it can be frustrating.


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Self-diagnosis is not a thing. You are not diagnosed, therefor you don't know that your issues stem from being on the spectrum, AND you don't have the "right" to special help in school, to have assignments made for your way of learning. I mean, that is something that would be great for ALL students, who wouldn't want assignments created specifically for their preferred way of learning? But you're only entitled to it if you have a diagnosis.

You cant tell your teachers you have aspergers just because you think you do... So I would advice you to turn to a psychologist with your concerns.

If you need special help, you have to have a diagnosis in order to have any right to demand it, thats just how the system works, unfortunately.


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Correct, self-diagnosis does not matter. I would never tell a professor about anything except an official diagnosis because I would be afraid they would think I was making something up to get things easier. Even outside of the Autism Spectrum though, people learn differently. You may try coming from an angle of this would help me instead of I have X so need Y. Since you don't have a diagnosis there is no way to tell if it is ASD. I have ASD plus some others and many of my learning needs come from other things. I would advise getting testing. If you are on a university campus, the campus may have a counseling center or clinic that can help you find resources.

I don't agree with the word "entitled" in here. I don't think I am entitled to certain things because of my ASD. I should not be discriminated against and treated differently, but I think sometimes we get to caught up in being entitled. When I approach my university or professors for accommodations I let them know what is going on and what would be helpful. I don't use words such as require or entitled because really, we are not entitled to it. Accommodations are not a right, they are a privilege. I'm fortunate enough to be in a situation where some accommodations are offered to me, but this does not make them my right or entitle me to them.



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09 Jul 2014, 5:10 am

Depending on the country, accommodations may be a right.

Though treating them as a privilege may work better in asking for them.

Beating people with the rules is generally an ineffective tactic, but it can be useful to know what the rules are.



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02 Aug 2014, 11:39 pm

Waterfalls wrote:
Depending on the country, accommodations may be a right.

Though treating them as a privilege may work better in asking for them.

Beating people with the rules is generally an ineffective tactic, but it can be useful to know what the rules are.


I'm in the USA where all accommodations are considered a right. I disagree though. I see them as an opportunity and a privilege. I approach my school and professors from that angle.



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03 Aug 2014, 7:50 am

nikaTheJellyfish wrote:
Waterfalls wrote:
Depending on the country, accommodations may be a right.

Though treating them as a privilege may work better in asking for them.

Beating people with the rules is generally an ineffective tactic, but it can be useful to know what the rules are.


I'm in the USA where all accommodations are considered a right. I disagree though. I see them as an opportunity and a privilege. I approach my school and professors from that angle.

Know they are a right, treat them as a privilege works best IMO.



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09 Aug 2014, 7:33 am

Based on my experience, you do everything you can to avoid letting your teacher know you have an alternate learning style, if she is rotten to the core then things can go very badly for both of you.


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13 Aug 2014, 11:39 pm

i don't.
they seem to already know by the first day of classes.
it's in my "files".


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